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Posted : 25 Oct, 2009 10:31 PM

Whats wrong with my profile?!?!?! Almost no one has viewed me and the ones who did haven't said hi or anything! Someone notice me! Im on here for a reason dawmitt!

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Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 09:49 AM

Dont worry dude. I get a lot of profile views myself. But rarely any messages

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Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 11:49 AM

Dear Joe, there is nothing wrong with your profile, actually from what I read u seem like a nice person. May be u need to put some more photos that show u in an interesting way. Also being active online, allow more women to check your profile .

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Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 02:50 PM

Hey Joe! :)



If you're really asking for the truth, my advice would have to be to get a nice picture of you smiling!! Guys just don't understand how important those pictures are. When a guy has a nice smile, it really sticks out to me and I've read where other girls feel the same.



So there's my two cents..



Have a good day



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Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 04:39 PM

From one Minnesotan to another:



Dear Heart, you do come off looking sad and isolated. Where do you go to get support in your Christian walk??



Maybe if you made some Christian connections in real life, the cyber thing would perk up, too.



Maternally,

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Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 09:10 PM

Thanks guys. Those are actually some good ideas that I haven't thought of. Honestly I was just reverse psychologyzing you all to look at my profile, lol. And it worked! I do wish more people would notice me though. It seems like there's more guys on here than girls. And I guess if its that important to have a smiling pic, I'm gonna try to find one. Well thanks everyone and God bless you all.:glow:

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2009 08:32 AM

friend look at my profile.I have a pic of me feeding a bear cub.My per cat.Oh,the bear cub pic draws the ladies.More than when I used my pet cat. Action and fun pics get more views.:dancingp:

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2009 10:35 PM

Wow Joe, did you post your profile to be sarcastic or is it an accurate description of you? First off, you picture looks to irritated and people can't see your face. When I read your profile I wondered if it was just a joke or not. Here is what you tell us about yourself:



~You're closed off.

~You're lazy.

~You have nothing better in life to do.

~You are lonely.

~You're pessimistic about meeting anyone.

~You're on a Christian dating site but you don't go to church.



And you don't understand why these descriptors aren't helping you snag a woman? Joe, the first part of this whole dating game is advertisement. After reading your profile, I wouldn't hire you let alone date you. Not trying to be harsh here, just honest.



You must work on a better way to project yourself. If you read a girl's profile and she wrote the above about herself, would you be interested in her? No one wants to date Eeyore. I don't care that you flip burgers for a living, you can take your whole profile and try better advertising techniques. It's all about how you project yourself and the above is what I read and even quoted some of it directly from you. If you are serious about this, you can tweak your page and I believe you will get better results.

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2009 11:58 PM

Ouch...ohh snap! That is harsh, but its ok its all true. why not be honest about yourself? I am lazy and pessimistic and closed off. why would I want to pretend to be something im not? If i do meet someone on here theres a good chance she would eventually see me for who I am anyway so why try to hide it?

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Posted : 8 Nov, 2009 11:28 PM

because i'm sure you aren't really that type of person at heart.



i'm the type of girl who likes to see people for who they can be (which, yes, has always gotten me into bad relationships).



i have gone through a lot in the past 4 years and have had my fair challenges with God. thankfully i was blessed to be born and raised in a Christian home, and have an incredibly stubborn & goofy aunt who always checked up on me to make sure that I was reading my Bible and working on my walk with God. she truly was the one who saved me from myself & falling into temptation. i strongly and sincerely believe that we all need people in our lives who we can be accountable to, to help us stay strong when we feel like we can't.



and, i'm not sure if this is suppose to come out right, but this is what my dad told me when i told him i was doing online dating: "when you decide to post online that you are looking for anything, whether it be a date, relationship or marriage, you need to sell yourself and give 110%. because, truly, if this is what you are going to do (re: putting yourself out there to find someone), you need to show that you are serious about it. because if you weren't, then you shouldn't be on it"



and, i agree wholeheartedly with him.



so, put 110% into this and show women on this site what a catch you are! :)

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Posted : 11 Nov, 2009 03:36 PM

i been wondering that recently about my profile myself. I've sent messages with no replies. Do women fear male friendship? Well as long as I get my kicks and it brings a smile to their face I guess it's okay... Plus they haven't sent any cease and desist messages either. *gives self pat on the back* Plus there are others I guess... I think I've answered my question. In my own vague way....

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