Author	Thread: How come no one looks?
Admin	How come no one looks? Posted : 21 Oct, 2009 08:56 PM Ok,so I need some help . I've bin on this site for about 3 years. Since then I have not had one person try contact me, and of all the women I tried to talk to only one had the decency to message me back.So whats the problem? Do I need to whip the shirt off and strike a pose or something:winksmile:? I know I got kind of emo in some of my previous posts, but I was just ticked off and angry at the world when I wrote those.I hope I did not scare any one off.I'm a happy person most the time! Post Reply
dsuchick21 View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 21 Oct, 2009 10:53 PM First off... RELAX. Your chance will come; maybe God is just saying now isn't the time. I have found that when I am not searching, that's when I am sought after. You seem like a nice guy, so I am sure you will meet someone at some point. Be patient, and pray a lot about it. ~Eileen Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 22 Oct, 2009 06:50 PM Jared buddy,take a look at my profile.I have a picture of my pet cat.Nothing wrong with having a pet as your pic.ladies like that. The same old guy pics are boring.I was in the ukraine a few years ago.Have a pic of Russian church. Young ladies also like a man 2-3 years oler than they are.Maybe they want to finish school 1st (college). I checked your profile out.You are 21, ladies who get out of college like guys who are settle in.You are almost there.:applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 23 Oct, 2009 10:18 PM Ok , people you need to do better then this.You have to give me more to go on, other then just be patient.I'm tired of being patient! It hasn't work to well for the last three years so maybe its time for a different approach. Just tell me what to do.If I need to bulk up ,then tell me to hit the gym.If you think I need more formal education, fine I'll work on that.Trust me your not going to hurt my feeling. Personally I think I'm great person and any women would be lucky to have me:winksmile:! Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 24 Oct, 2009 03:08 AM if you're angry at the world expand it. if there's any excuse to get out, do it and live your life. if you do this and you encounter a special some one great, if not then it's just a matter of time. expand your options and if you can't then there are always the options you already have that can be explored deeper till something changes which this often leads to. this site isn't the only way to meet women. don't pause your life for this. if that's even somewhat your situation. if not then food for thought. lol. God bless, man. Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 24 Oct, 2009 08:46 AM :dancingp: Friend I volunter at a cat rescue.Women like pets. hey, nothing like giving a little free time for little critters. Do you go whitewater rafting?:excited: Some church singles groups go on a all day trip like whitewater rafting.Good way to meet single ladies. Post Reply
servant386 View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 24 Oct, 2009 10:11 AM Hello Jared . I read your profile to see if I could help you and not knowing much about you it is difficult to answer all of the concern but here is what I need to know and ask too. Have you surrendered to Christ ? Your profile says you go to church but that is all . Your profile is sparse and most here are seeking someone who is just absolutely imperfect but surrendered to Jesus . If not surrendered seek answers about eternity here or elsewhere . If you have your name written in the Lamb`s Book Of Life , then pour out a description of who you are in Christ and what you have to offer and then your hopes . If I were a women and looked at what you wrote , I would pass you by thinking you were here for dating as opposed to finding that "good thing " spoken of in Prov. 18:22 . Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 24 Oct, 2009 02:12 PM Voice from the Ancients: I just looked over your profile, and you do come off a bit intense. Maybe if you provided more info, answered more questions, and/or included more pics, women would have a better chance to capture your true essence. Prayerfully making all additions, of course. Maternally, P Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 24 Oct, 2009 02:50 PM Okay this is my answer and it may be totally different from anyone else cause we are no made from God's giant cookie cutter~~:rolleyes: Things I like on a profile: Smiling faces that are real not plastic~you can tell if the "eyes" are smiling, too. Pictures of the man with his pet if he has one are okay, but not just the pet~I'm not looking through profiles for a German Shepherd~~although I love them! Other pics of him with his family or kids, grandkids etc.~~as long as he points out who is who. What he is looking for in a woman specifically without sounding like he is shopping at "perfect and more perfect" store. The most important thing is that he wants a woman who loves the Lord~~or why even be on a site like this? A man who does not take himself too serious~~can crack a clean joke and not have 10 scriptures plastered all over his profile and has to speak "Christianese" to impress us~~huh? I won't even consider someone who is separated~~they are still married, period. Lastly, there has to be chemistry after I look at the pic and profile at least twice so I will go back and meditate and see if I might think this could be the one? "Whadda ya say God? ~~~ If there is chemistry but distance is a problem or some other belief like strict some other denomination that I won't click with~~then I move on cause compatibility is huge and I don't just want to date to date. I truly believe that is is a time thing for many as God has His timing and we don't usually like it~~or there are many factors to consider why it has not happened yet~~many people have gotten divorces without God's consent and may not find another? But GOD does join the RIGHT two together according to this: God is the author of marriage and blesses the union of man and woman (Gen. 2: 18-25, Heb. 13: 4). Jesus reinstated God's original marriage when he enunciated, "And said, for this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder" (Matt. 19: 5, 6, see vs. 9). Sorry this went over what you asked~~:peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 25 Oct, 2009 06:05 PM I'm sorry that you are frustrated. But instead of giving you some pat encouragement I will offer two ideas...if that's alright. 1. Post a picture with you smiling. :glow: Your current picture seems intimidating. You want to appear friendly and fun..because you are! 2. List some things that you like to do, things that give you personality. You don't have to describe anything in great detail. Just make a random list of facts about you. It makes you some more interesting and gives people things to ask/comment on. (fake ex. I once kissed a seal when I was 6. I caught a pig in a pig scramble. My favorite place in my town is the post office. etc.) I hope this at least gets you thinking. By no means do I claim that this will solve your anxiety because it won't. Perhaps, however, it will ease it a little. Thanks for your honesty.i Post Reply
View Profile History	How come no one looks? Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 06:44 PM I ad new pics all the time.Change things around in my profile. Try this,If something does not work try something different. My new pic is here.My feeding a bear cub.Ladies visiting my profile just went up. I taught my cat to box:boxing: For real.The ladies laugh at things like that.Now when I walk by Casper he hits me with his paw, when he wants me to play.:boxing::MrT: Post Reply

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