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Aardvark View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 22 Jul, 2009 05:06 PM How persistant should i be when i am talking to people. like when they stop replying. after they have viewed my message. or is that what they want me to do, is just to leave them alone.lol or do you think i should say something if they might have been buisy and forgot to. probly not a good thing if they would forget though. I dont Know. lol Post Reply
View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 22 Jul, 2009 05:59 PM dear ard, to me if you see someones read your message.. id not write again till they did write to me back.. they may feel youre bein pushy then.. and if they aint wrote back they prolly wont anyways hehe.. ya know.. if they wanna talk to ya theyll make time to write you back.. ole cattle Post Reply
ayngrady View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 22 Jul, 2009 06:45 PM well depends on what you say to them.... if you're saying hey baby let me rescue you mmmm you are the finest ive ever seen ( yes some do say that... its creepy) then uh well they prob roll their eyes and move on say hi! how are you? ect ect... leep it really real k.ayn Post Reply
Aardvark View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 06:07 AM Thanks for the info. that was kind of what i was thinkin. but i am just the new guy and have no idea what i am doing. Post Reply
View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 12:04 PM good question, as i have been wondering. this same thing has happened to me. Now, for me, i may have forgotten to reply and it was an oversight, so for some i would want them to send another note. Now doesn't that muddy the water? too bad there wasn't an auto response (some dating sites have), where they let you know, it's not happening for them. Post Reply
View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 09:15 PM Make sure when you type to someone that you give them a reason to write back. Ask questions, be interested in what they have to say. I had someone on here who seemed very nice but it was really hard to type back to him because he never asked questions or left me a lead in to type back. It was a little hard to hold a conversation with him, it felt like too much work, so I just left it alone. Started becoming too much work and left me feeling like maybe he was just being nice and not so interested. So far it has been over a week... I think he is gone. NEXT! :bouncy: Post Reply
Aardvark View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 25 Jul, 2009 06:20 AM Well, that definetly gets the water a little muddy again. and i didnt give you the whole story either. i may have said something that may have made her mad, not sure.. or am i just thinking too much again. what, then? and it has been a week.lol Post Reply
View Profile History	not Quite sure about this. Posted : 25 Jul, 2009 06:31 AM Did you mean what you said at the time you said it? If not, did you appologize? Only a week? Ah shooo, if it was your fault, give her time, or maybe whatever you said to her was one of them "deal breakers" or a "red flag" in her mind and instead of having a dramatic ending she just chose to remove herself quietly? Maybe she wasn't that into you all it took was one mess up? If in your eyes she is worth the wait, then the answer is wait as long as it takes. If you must have a deadline, I believe it is safe to say after two weeks if she hasn't responded she probably won't. Post Reply