Author	Thread: Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous?
Dazz View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 18 Nov, 2020 07:32 AM I Think the question speaks for ITSELF? I send a single, polite message, to an appropriate lady. I can see she has read it, but never get a reply. Never I'm ssimply curious, and somewhat incredulous, as to how supposedly Christian women justify such a lack of basic courtesy? Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 18 Nov, 2020 08:17 AM Everyone has their own way of navigating the site, some people respond to all messages wether they're interested in the person or not. While others may only respond to messages, if they're interested in getting to know the person. I've experienced this myself and while it can be disconcerting, it's something we have no control over...:-) Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 18 Nov, 2020 08:43 AM Many men do the same thing! I've sent messages, some men will respond even if they're not interested in me. Many people aren't considerate of others on dating sites. Actually many aren't here to date or find a relationship. They are already in one nearby. Post Reply
Passionfruit720 View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 19 Nov, 2020 03:52 PM Some messages are just not worth replying to. They'd say hi and nothing else. When you look at their profile, nothing. So what's there to talk about? Sometimes, it's easier to just ignore than to reject someone directly. It's simply saying you're not her type, let's not waste time, it won't go anywhere...those are things that's difficult to say. That's just reality and it means go find someone else. For the uninitiated, it would be a culture shock because that's not how it works face to face. But online, it's a different thing. We are all strangers. And people may just have no time for chit chat with someone they know they wouldn't meet in person. And it's easier to ignore strangers when you're not face to face. Post Reply
irc1 View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 3 Dec, 2020 05:23 AM well those people should be kicked out of this site. This is not a Christian way of behaviour. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 15 Dec, 2020 11:47 AM I think the question is selfish and does not understand some basic things. 1. You seem to think the world revolves around you by thinking every woman you message has the mandate of replying to you. A woman has the right to not be attracted to you, your profile, or something you wrote. It is not discourteous for her to just move on and not cause an argument because if she indeed does explain she is not interested, 9/10 you will demand an explanation. 2. You don't realize the amount of messages that some women get. There is no way to reply to them all. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 22 Dec, 2020 04:17 PM Law of supply and demand. Women are often bombarded by messages and can't properly reply to each message. "discourteous" - Everyone has a different definition for this one. Post Reply
irc1 View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 23 Dec, 2020 09:54 AM I guees this woman dont have good manours. Then we can think, id this the way god and Jesus wants us to threat other people. I dont think so. I would have expect such a rudeness in a common dating site, but not this. For me, i think this woman and other like her should leave this group. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 30 Jan, 2021 07:09 AM I am a female but I agree on this one. Generally, it is basic courtesy to respond when one messages/receive messages...this should apply to both male and female. No other explanation ...that is just it, courtesy. I suppose, it is because there is that immediate assumption that a message tantamount to "attraction"...well yes, but who knows, the other person just wants to reach out. This is, after all, dating/friendship site. Rule of thumb: Don't flatter yourself too much. Chill. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 30 Jan, 2021 07:47 AM This is an interesting topic, and something that I've personally struggled with. On the one hand, there have been many times when I've messaged a woman and gotten no response. Personally, I haven't been offended. Instead, I've just taken that as a sign that the woman has no interest in me for whatever reason (s), and that's certainly her prerogative. My struggle has actually pertained to the many times when I've received messages from women that I'm not personally attracted to, and I'm NOT just speaking of physical attraction. By nature, as a Christian, I am very courteous, so, initially, I'm thinking that I should respond. At the same time, however, I'm thinking that if I do respond, then I might be giving out some sort of false hope, and I would never want to play with anybody's emotions. Generally speaking, I won't respond, but that's not out of discourtesy. Instead, I'm actually trying to think of what might be better for the other person involved, and not myself. Anyhow, it's complicated... Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Why do "Christian" women think its ok to be discourteous? Posted : 30 Jan, 2021 08:50 AM Unusually respond to all messages. I like to chat while Online. I have a date in my hometown so chatting is just that. Most men I chat with are interested in me for relationship they live Hundreds of Miles away. Some just like to View women here . Post Reply

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