Author	Thread: Separated
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Separated Posted : 12 Oct, 2019 12:37 PM There is a big difference between Legally separated and just separated. I believe Legally it is ok to date someone, because your marriage is over except for legal matters. Usually financial reasons not yet agreed on or worked out. Comments welcomed ladies ! Post Reply
Alligator View Profile History	Separated Posted : 12 Oct, 2019 06:24 PM to me, either legal process in the works, or just being apart is married. Without a divorce, you can drop your accusations and legal work at a moments notice and get back together. IMHO Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Separated Posted : 13 Oct, 2019 04:15 AM People who get legally separated have to pay a fee! Most couples probably do go ahead with that divorce. IMO. However, many divorced couples get remarried for some reason! Just because your divorced doesn't mean you don't still have strong feelings for your Ex.💕 Thing is people should make sure the person your involved with is emotional over the other person they were married too. Conversation and lots of it well usually identify that if they are. Even Widow/Widower. Are not ready to move on for Years ifthen, after loosing their Spouses. Post Reply
Ocean17 View Profile History	Separated Posted : 13 Oct, 2019 11:50 AM I personally I decline to date anyone who is not divorced and so for some time. There is a healing time required to be able to move on even if it's been over for a while. Just my experience....relationships are difficult as it is without having the past still creeping around. Choose well. Post Reply
T0TH3M4X View Profile History	Separated Posted : 13 Oct, 2019 07:49 PM You're either married or you're not. Wouldn't dare date someone who is "separated", because they aren't separated before God at that time, and if I intrude on that relationship, I'm also intruding on God in that respect. Post Reply
View Profile History	Separated Posted : 14 Oct, 2019 10:52 AM I would not date someone who is separated or divorced. Post Reply
bushfire^ View Profile History	Separated Posted : 14 Oct, 2019 05:41 PM OP that's a very legalistic view point, one seen in your replies to other posts. I'll contrast it with wisdom. A wise person would not date a separated person or one recently divorced but allow that person to decompress and figure out their life. Hopefully the divorcee allows the Holy Spirit to guide and mature them so they don't end up marrying the same type of person again. I've heard many say they married someone different and yet they're going thru a second, third, or fourth divorce. They didn't marry someone different except in superficial aspects. Post Reply
Chioniso View Profile History	Separated Posted : 14 Oct, 2019 11:39 PM Do not waste your precious time with someone who is under any type of separation. Thats wisdom. Infact you are committing sin. Also you cannot get into a serious relationship with recently divorced. They are still in confusion and surely need time to heal and decide what they want in life. Post Reply
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Moonlight7 View Profile History	Separated Posted : 16 Oct, 2019 04:57 PM Interesting comments! I did say I dated a separated man, I just think if it's Legal then it's Lawful not married anymore. IMO Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Separated Posted : 16 Oct, 2019 04:59 PM Correction-. I didn't date ! Post Reply

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