Author	Thread: Feelings About Winks
ChildOfTheNight View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 27 May, 2019 09:05 PM It seems like a lot of the women I talk to are used to recieving a wink instead of a message. I always send messages, mostly because most of my friends are strong, independent women who would find winks demeaning. But now I'm curious. Do you prefer someone sending you a wink or someone sending you a message??? Post Reply
VirginiaMom View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 28 May, 2019 12:08 PM I don't find winks demeaning. I just appreciate a guy who actually puts in a little effort. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 1 Jun, 2019 12:08 AM Sending winks make sense on a paid site because you might want to gage interest before subscribing. But on a site where the sending and receiving of messages is free it's pointless/lazy and I completely ignore them. Post Reply
View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 4 Jun, 2019 12:43 PM I am one of those who hates wink. What is the response to a wink? Messages here are free, so as opposed to sending a wink, why not send a message if you are genuinely interested. Post Reply
View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 5 Jun, 2019 05:52 PM Exactly. It doesn't take much effort to say, "Hi." Post Reply
Alligator View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 29 Jun, 2019 02:36 PM i get a lot of winks, but when i click on it, the entire wink disappears. so i think they are worthless. Post Reply
View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 1 Aug, 2019 05:03 PM I like both some people aren't as forward as others so a wink isnt to direct it's more of a subtle sentiment like a note saying hi vs a l (message) which is more like a letter asking a person to be more engaging. Jmt.... . Post Reply
View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 26 Aug, 2019 08:11 PM If you want to actually chat with me- a message. I rarely even look at a profile just bc I recd a wink. A wink is nice if we have chatted before. Post Reply
View Profile History	Feelings About Winks Posted : 29 Nov, 2019 02:40 AM Messages on this site ARE NOT free. Unless you pay for a subscription the person cannot read your message nor would you be able read theirs. So winks are appropriate. However, I find most women on here are so uptight about these things. I think we all have extra baggage (if divorced) that comes into play and not in our best interest. Post Reply