Author	Thread: Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ?
Admin	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 14 Nov, 2017 09:45 AM Will you go for an international person who has good education, similar likes and is doing something in life or choose someone on basis of ethnicity/skin color/race ? Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 14 Nov, 2017 01:46 PM I think that everything that makes a person who they are matters. How much is down to the individual. Post Reply
1jon310 View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 14 Nov, 2017 08:06 PM Have yet to find it in my Bible where beauty is limited to race, shape, or color. The song goes "red or yellow, black or white they are all precious in His sight" doesn't it? Post Reply
View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 21 Nov, 2017 03:36 PM I think everyone's entitled to their own tastes regarding looks / ethnicity / etc. If it's based on some sort of generalized bias against a group, that's something God needs to work on in you. Otherwise, I think it's perfectly acceptable. That being said, I think some people have unreasonable expectations, but that might be for another topic. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 22 Nov, 2017 01:10 AM We are all loved by God no matter what the color, and we are to accept each other as Christ accepted us. It's just that some may have their own preferences based on who they're attracted to. Maybe others consider a specific culture that they like, or they have considerations in distance. After all, CDFF is about meeting someone you might spend your life with. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 27 Nov, 2017 01:22 PM Actually I have noticed a bias of being ignored by white girls from Europe.Since, I live in Norway I know there is a specific racial bias in Europe based on ethnicity. However this is not the case for woman from rest part of the world. They ignore because of distance barrier. Actually I am so surprised by some profile descriptions of white Europeans girls who write a lot about how they are dedicated to Christ in their profile, but are not at all open minded and global thinking.(in short hidden racist) I hope the first thing they should be considering is to give up racism in general. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 27 Nov, 2017 02:32 PM But judging by your post you also seem to have a bias, as you appear to be wanting to make contact with white women only. People like what they like you can't be annoyed because their preference excludes you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 28 Nov, 2017 01:47 AM Have yet to find in my bible a place that mandates who people are attracted to. This globalist insistence on interbreeding is designed to weaken the nations by making their decendants essentially without any group identity at all in direct competition with the Christian idea of a new shared identity in Christ. Globalism is NOT Christian and has never tried to be anything other than the exact opposite where possible. This is not very dissimilar from trangender people DEMANDING that members of a certain sex re-educate themselves to find them attractive.... you cannot alter reality, every single individual has different tastes and every group has shared tastes.... that's just how people's brains are hardwired. This always happens on scales, people usually (USUALLY) find the group closest to them most attractive with all other groups being individually put into their own places on the personal scale unique to every individual doing the judging. The caveat here is this scale is swayed by another more crude scale unique to every group. This is partly cultural but mostly genetic probably. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 28 Nov, 2017 01:51 AM Another thing people simply ignore is that you have to marry someone that can actually integrate into your family, you don't just marry someone you in some sense marry their parents to your own. Some societies and/or families are just plain more tolerant to out-groups than others with various historical and just plain common senese caveats.... it's NOT so simple as some seem to think and we do NOT live in some daft Hollywood film where "love" is all that matters foreverafter. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 28 Nov, 2017 02:47 AM I just take people on their merit it works for me... Post Reply
View Profile History	Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ? Posted : 29 Nov, 2017 01:52 PM The actions of people are based on their perception of people. I am not sure how much you are aware of what makes a person date someone ? It is based on psychology. Did you noticed that I mentioned that European woman have this bias and not from other part of the world ? I have spoken to many American woman on this platform and they are much open to talk, even if their ancestors migrated from Europe to Usa long time ago.DO you know why is so ? Its because of simple fact that Americans don't discriminate on the basis of skin color/ethnicity. They talk to a person and after that start with an opinion. This basic reason makes the USA the land of opportunity for immigrant entrepreneurs. Post Reply

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