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Posted : 1 Aug, 2017 11:13 PM

...personality



We are not intimidated by a woman with education, opinions..or stunning good looks. As you know, those fade with time...



...but a woman with a beautiful personality...wow...she can be bbw, poor... or have physical handicaps...if the love of Jesus flows through her, that beauty remains alive longer...



...even in her older years (even when facing dementia), her beauty can still be seen..



..priceless

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Posted : 8 Aug, 2017 07:04 PM

I agree, the thing you live with is not external but internal, if it is broken internally then a lot of surgery is needed, if you happen to be blessed with a good constitution then nothing is too much for you, a good heart ponders all and lacks nothing.



the reality for most people is a little more complex, as we are so educated in what we do, we weigh and ponder much, our ability to handle complex systems and identify faults in those systems leaves us in a cultural quagmire, we identify ourselves as being at fault and we encourage others to see us as faulty, weight watchers ok magazine syndicated niche magazines for the body beautiful, we objectify quantify and reject the non standard and substandard, we are in effect choosing by a measure that is imposed and self imposed to make our decisions for us, we use this technique in schools, indoctrination.



as I said people are complex and what one man finds beautiful another finds ugly regardless of the culture, the bible talks of the mystery and beauty of a man with his wife, life is not a photo op it's about living daily, and I agree that being compatible outweighs any self gratification we may feel from having a "model wife", women like men look at the exterior and compare, even the beautiful are not immune to that pain, it's just an indicator not a definition.



our culture demands that we objectify everything so the simplicity of " I like you" is almost impossible to convey without crossing some boundary, I guess that's why Love covers a multitude of Sins, it looks it sees it passes over.



a thousand smiles and a whisper good night are worth more than a ferrari in an empty house.



but out of fairness, I think ferraris are wonderfully engineered.

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Posted : 8 Aug, 2017 07:07 PM

I agree, the thing you live with is not external but internal, if it is broken internally then a lot of surgery is needed, if you happen to be blessed with a good constitution then nothing is too much for you, a good heart ponders all and lacks nothing.



the reality for most people is a little more complex, as we are so educated in what we do, we weigh and ponder much, our ability to handle complex systems and identify faults in those systems leaves us in a cultural quagmire, we identify ourselves as being at fault and we encourage others to see us as faulty, weight watchers ok magazine syndicated niche magazines for the body beautiful, we objectify quantify and reject the non standard and substandard, we are in effect choosing by a measure that is imposed and self imposed to make our decisions for us, we use this technique in schools, indoctrination.



as I said people are complex and what one man finds beautiful another finds ugly regardless of the culture, the bible talks of the mystery and beauty of a man with his wife, life is not a photo op it's about living daily, and I agree that being compatible outweighs any self gratification we may feel from having a "model wife", women like men look at the exterior and compare, even the beautiful are not immune to that pain, it's just an indicator not a definition.



our culture demands that we objectify everything so the simplicity of " I like you" is almost impossible to convey without crossing some boundary, I guess that's why Love covers a multitude of Sins, it looks it sees it passes over.



a thousand smiles and a whisper good night are worth more than a ferrari in an empty house.



but out of fairness, I think ferraris are wonderfully engineered.

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Posted : 9 Aug, 2017 11:22 AM

External beauty might be the strongest initial attraction for a man, sometimes amazingly powerful, but no man stays for pretty... if you catch him with your looks you had better have something more substantial to offer otherwise he will vapidly flatter you to no end and then one day just leave when you start to bore him. A man (or woman for that matter) that smilingly agrees with everything you say is a liar, in related news no one with sense ever trusts a permanent smile on a pretty face.

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2017 06:27 AM

in related news no one with sense ever trusts a permanent smile on a pretty face.



LOL so true

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Posted : 9 Sep, 2017 02:48 AM

Did you know that those ladies with good heart are not as attractive to men than those with good outside appearances. I am saying this because I am one of them. My appearance is not as attractive but my heart is so nice. I am saying so because I have never met a mature man who loves me. Only God loves me. Hence I believe I am not attractive outside.

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Posted : 18 Sep, 2017 10:32 AM

While I believe a good personality is high up the list, its something you'd only discover after striking up a conversation, that probably started because you liked what you saw.

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