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What do you expect/accept from your husband?
Posted : 7 Oct, 2016 01:59 PM

Hi sisters, I've got some questions for you about what you would expect/accept from your husband:



- he is very focused on your body, wants to be intimate often



- do you believe he should be the "head of the family"?



- would you lose respect for him if he cried in your presence / shared sadness or pain to you?

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What do you expect/accept from your husband?
Posted : 16 Oct, 2016 10:42 PM

God fearing and everything will fall into place

and yes thats okay to cry,,,in front of a woman

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2016 05:15 PM

Jesus said that the man is the head of the house and he is to give his life for his bride like Jesus gave his life for the church.

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2016 12:12 AM

Hi Magnus!



Hers's my take on it:



- he is very focused on your body, wants to be intimate often

===> If he is my husband, I would want to be intimate with him too! :) Godly intimacy is centered on love.

What do you mean focused on the body? If my husband is focusing on my body to adore it then... go ahead! But if he is there to scrutinize it.... then there is something wrong with that.





- do you believe he should be the "head of the family"?

===>Yes, I do and he should also be worthy of being so. Like being responsible, faithful and trust-worthy. A woman would naturally want to submit to a man she trusts and respects. So a man should do his best not to ruin that. But I also know that the women should be an equal... a help meet and not a maid.





- would you lose respect for him if he cried in your presence / shared sadness or pain to you?

===> Never, in fact I would love him more for being real with me. No facades. It is quite an admirable quality of a man to be able to open up his feelings to his partner.



Hope this helps you Magnus! God bless!

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2016 12:13 AM

Hi Magnus!



Hers's my take on it:



- he is very focused on your body, wants to be intimate often

===> If he is my husband, I would want to be intimate with him too! :) Godly intimacy is centered on love.

What do you mean focused on the body? If my husband is focusing on my body to adore it then... go ahead! But if he is there to scrutinize it.... then there is something wrong with that.





- do you believe he should be the "head of the family"?

===>Yes, I do and he should also be worthy of being so. Like being responsible, faithful and trust-worthy. A woman would naturally want to submit to a man she trusts and respects. So a man should do his best not to ruin that. But I also know that the women should be an equal... a help meet and not a maid.





- would you lose respect for him if he cried in your presence / shared sadness or pain to you?

===> Never, in fact I would love him more for being real with me. No facades. It is quite an admirable quality of a man to be able to open up his feelings to his partner.



Hope this helps you Magnus! God bless!

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Posted : 15 Nov, 2016 11:52 AM

Thanks! Valuable answers.

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Posted : 16 Nov, 2016 04:59 AM

Hi! :) well here are my answers:



-he is very focused on your body, wants to be intimate often

--hmmm I'd prefer if he is more focused in respecting and loving ME than my body... Of course,I like being intimate with my (future) husband but perhaps it would be better if we focus more on building relationships together with Christ than satisfying what our body wants (sorry for being too awkward... haha i'm not used to discussing topics like this)





- do you believe he should be the "head of the family"?

Well, being physically stronger and less emotional, I believe it is better for a RESPONSIBLE husband to be the head of the family.





- would you lose respect for him if he cried in your presence / shared sadness or pain to you?

-I really admire men who are not ashamed to cry or expressed their sadness or pain to others. In fact, I find them courageous and sincere.

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