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megel

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does it drive you crazy?
Posted : 15 Aug, 2015 07:25 AM

I have been looking on this site for 4 years and it drives me crazy when I go to a profile and all it says it the about me is "Ask Me" and for what ever reason it makes me not want to ask anything because I just can't help but feel like there just not into it, not to mention lazy. Is it right to feel that way? Why do they do this? Do guys do it to? Why?

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Posted : 15 Aug, 2015 04:45 PM

Megel...why does anybody do the things they do, lol(smile)!!? Seriously though...you may have partly answered your own question by suggesting laziness as one reason, but I also think that there are people here who aren't really serious about finding their life mate!



A lot are here just hanging out..."observing" so to speak!! And then I believe there's some who just aren't that confident in speaking about themselves. But whatever reasons there may be for this, don't get discouraged! If seeing that sentence on someone's profile, as you've said, "drives you crazy"...skip it and move on to one that at least says something about themselves that inspires you to message them! God's best in your search.

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Posted : 15 Aug, 2015 10:01 PM

Guys do do it to. It does seems like they are lazy but most I think have nothing to say which in turn makes me have nothing to say. So there quiet�stalemate. ^^'

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Posted : 13 Oct, 2015 06:43 PM

It does bother me... sometimes I want some information about someone before I think about writing someone... It might be that if you are interested you will ask questions.. Someone seem interested in me.. and wanted to know more about me.. and I told them to ask.. What do you want to know about me.. And haven't heard back.. so I thought that they weren't really interested.. I think initially , some info should be given.. but if you are interested.. questions should be initiated...

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Posted : 13 Nov, 2015 01:40 AM

I don't think there is anything wrong with that.Its good you feel maybe they are lazy.

If you are really interested you will ask whatever you would like to know about them.But if it drives you crazy as you say,good to pass.

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Posted : 16 Dec, 2015 07:50 PM

It definitely does bother me and I too usually will not even wink and definitely not message them. I too think it's laziness and shows just how not-serious about finding someone. If they''re not that serious about finding someone why bother?

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