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Javon74

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"A Guy's Looks"
Posted : 18 Sep, 2014 02:35 PM

I would like to obtain the prospective from God fearing women on thier opinion of, "how much do looks mean at this point in your life, when seeking a Man of God"? Thanks so much for your input;)

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Hisjoymypeace

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"A Guy's Looks"
Posted : 18 Sep, 2014 11:26 PM

Well Javon, lets be real........looks will always, to some degree matter in a persons physical attraction to the opposite sex! But what's attractive to you, may not be the same for someone else! "Beauty" will always be in the eyes of the beholder(smile)!!!



Now with that said, as a mature women, I've learned over the years to observe the depth of a man's faith and character first before taking what he looks like so seriously! I've met brothers who had looks, as most would say, "I could die for", but once they spoke or I had the privilege of spending quality time in their presence......well let's just say their looks became less and less noticeable(smile)!!



Then on the other hand I've met men who at first glance, I would have no physical attraction to, but if I happen to have spent time around them, maybe within a group, I would have discovered that the level and sincerity of their faith and character, left me impressed and asking an individual in the group....."whose that and what do you know about him(smile)lol!!"



I'll always feel that an individuals level of maturity and personal preference will somehow always determine how they react regarding whether the "look" of another person of the opposite sex, appeals to them or not! It's just a part of our human nature(smile)! I hope this helps!

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Javon74

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"A Guy's Looks"
Posted : 20 Sep, 2014 09:34 PM

Wow, thanks! Stated extraordinarily well. Your answer seems to derive from a mature spiritual insight;)

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"A Guy's Looks"
Posted : 1 Oct, 2014 10:37 AM

God's best will be the best looking guy in the whole wide world. It does not depend on looks. Isaac didn't choose his wife but when he saw her he loved her. I've heard about people being friends for a while and then they fell in love because of their personalities. Beauty fades but the heart remains the same. But it happens that people love each other at first sight it depends on God's plan and ways not ours.

Just to say that when you know it's God's will it makes him and it(relationship) the most beautiful.

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ChromeplatedHeart

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"A Guy's Looks"
Posted : 3 Oct, 2014 09:28 AM

As long as I dont scream when I see his face first thing upon waking up, that would be fine by me.



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WinaDaBest^

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"A Guy's Looks"
Posted : 23 May, 2023 02:28 PM

Right now, most importantly I seek Guy's heart rather than looks. Beauty and attractiveness can fade.

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