When a man pursue woman's heart, they go to the stars to give her, the moon sun, and the stars. Men show their best face, so sweet, kind, good manners...
But when women say "yes" men change their attitude, you don't fight for her heart anymore. So what's the deal?
Because a man has gained what he was after and we become their trohpy or if you like they wear us on their arm ,
Untill some see another more beautifull younger women and then we are discarded and off they go to fish again ,
i have seen this many times its comes down to sex and beauty ,
Would a man wont a woman who is not sexy and beatifull . heres another one , why do so many men go to Thailand and come back with a woman because we are not sexy enough or they think they can be in control , yes i know what goes on iv been in Thailand and saw what was going on , i just pitied those lovely women .
The words that come to mind are some men can not grow old so to think they are young as they were they get young girls ./ women .
I am sorry you gals have had some unhappy experiences with men. The Bible tells us that we never suffer anything that someone else hasn't also suffered. We are also told to rejoice in our various trials & testings. I know that seems awful, but when you study God's Word with then intent to live out what God says, trusting Him & asking for the mind of Christ, then the scriptures do indeed make sense. Peter's little epistles go into great detail about how a follower of Christ is to suffer, bringing God glory. James tells us how suffering comes to be in our lives. There are no mistakes. God is in charge, He is good and He is always right. We are not.
I am not a beautiful woman, Yet I have not experienced men the same way you have. Much of what we experience is based on the attitude we bring to the table. We have no control, and I mean absolutely zero control over the events in our lives. This present world is fallen, ruled by the prince of darkness, and in it is no good thing. In us is no good thing. That is why God will destroy it all, creating a new Heaven & a new Earth, where sin of Satan will be no more. In the meantime, all we are called to do is RESPOND. Responsibility means the "ability" to "respond". That is everything. A study of the Sermon on the Mount, which is a picture of how it will be in the Kingdom of Christ (the Millennium) shows us lives in submission & surrender to God, in loving response to Him & His life in us.
Ever wonder why God doesn't simply take us home the moment we are born-again? Our true life is hidden in the heavenlies with Christ & the life we live "down" here is Christ living in, by & through us. He keeps us here to be His hands, His feet, His heart & His mind. That's why we are told to die daily. It's all about Him - it's never about us. There are only 2 men as far as Father God is concerned - there is Adam, broken, fallen, a sinner, dead in trespasses & sins. Then there is Christ Jesus. He is the Life, the Truth & the Love. We are either in Adam, or we are in Christ.
We must ask ourselves on a regular basis, are we in Christ? Or are we living for self, building lives of wood, hay & stubble? If the latter, then we are lost & Need to get back to the only true life, In Christ. There we can receive Love, joy, peace, etc & only there.
I think the big temptation we have in these dark days is not seeing God first, not living in the awareness that we have an enemy - actually 3 of them - our flesh, the world & Satan!
Keep our eyes on Jesus & the devil will flee. Keep our minds in His Word & the world will soon become dim, die to ourselves daily & our flesh cannot defeat us.
Easier said than done, I know. It's a struggle daily - a fight to the death - literally! But it's all that really matters!
We're here because we hope to make friends & perhaps find our husband. God honors that when we honor Him first & trust Him to do all the work. Our job: show up, stand firm, respond with the mind & love of Christ.
