Author	Thread: Why do no girls like me?
Admin	Why do no girls like me? Posted : 24 Aug, 2014 02:19 PM I want to ask why no one ever likes me. I have been on multiple dates with girls and always after the first date they don't like me. I wax my car, I wear my nicest clothes and even pay for dinner or the movie or wherever we went. Am I some sort of freak? What is wrong with me? Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do no girls like me? Posted : 24 Aug, 2014 05:31 PM I think it is a very difficult question to answer without knowing all the details of each date. It could be something you said or projected. It also could be that you did nothing wrong and you just didn't click. My only suggestion would be to consider removing the shirtless pics on your profile. I think your profile pic looks fine and you would be better off replacing the other pics and writing a little bit about your personality or interests. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Why do no girls like me? Posted : 24 Aug, 2014 05:39 PM Well my brother......where do I begin? I want to first say that I speak to you as your sister in The Lord, a women and with Christ-like love! Though you mentioned that you've had numerous dates with women and have basically been rejected for whatever reasons there after, which I'm very sorry to hear, I want to comment on your profile here at CDFF. As you still are a young man, I suspect that though you didn't choose a faith base, your still searching and seeking in The Lord where you'd be most effective for the Kingdom! I sincerely pray that by the power of The holy Spirit, you'll find out exactly what and where that is! Now with that said, you've left too much to the imagination(smile)! I mean I would suspect that there's more to who you are than just a "hello" or "hi"! Tell your readers a little more about yourself! As a women, the pics of your abs.....well to each it's own(smile)! To sum up, I honestly think that when and how The Lord sends that special someone to your life, it will be who you desire and who desires you! And no, by no means are you a "freak"! If anything as a child of God you are a "peculiar" soul, wonderfully and specially made in and for Him! Always believe that! And finally....try and enjoy this journey The Lord has you on because truthfully, delay will never be denial in God's eyes! God's best in quest! Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	Why do no girls like me? Posted : 25 Aug, 2014 12:29 PM "I have been on multiple dates with girls" you get further than 95% of the guys on this site :laugh: Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Why do no girls like me? Posted : 26 Aug, 2014 05:49 AM I don't know you at all, but simply from your post here, it seems like you could be focusing on the external too much. Buying things, looking shiny, etc. Try focusing on getting to know them, and on being a likable person. Don't expect anything from them. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do no girls like me? Posted : 3 Sep, 2014 09:28 AM Have you seen that guy on YouTube who has no legs, yet he is getting married? He is a living proof that women don't care about what you look like. They especially don't care about how much wax you put on your car. Lol Perhaps if you had a net worth of 10 million dollars, certain women would become attracted simply because they are after your money. You attract the kind of people that you portray yourself to be. If you are a talkative, happy, optimistic person, then you attract normal people. If you talk bad about others and spread gossip, then you attract those kinds of people to you. And I have noticed that certain disabled people find a wife or husband who also is disabled. I saw a girl who was mute, and her husband who was also mute. They both communicated through sign language. Like attracts like. Now, back to the guy with no limbs... he is proof that it's not good health or looks that attracts women. What is needed is a happy outlook, outgoing and optimistic personality, a sense of humor, and non-judgmental attitude. Having those things almost guarantees you'll find someone. But if you lack those things, then society perceives you as "defective" and people will not even go near you. The interesting thing about dating is that you can't learn by experience and you can't learn by observing others. Show me one person on the globe who would be willing to let you sit and be present on his first date, second date, and so forth. People don't let others listen in, which means we cannot learn from those who are dating successfully. You can go on 100 dates with women and still not know what you're doing wrong, because women usually don't know it themselves. Or if they give you advice, it's often not true. If a girl asked me about why I don't like her, chances are I wouldn't tell her the truth, because I don't want to hurt her feelings. They are the same way. The advice many people give is "Just be yourself" is the stupidest advicve anyone can give. There are people who, if they follow this advice, will never get a date! So, the problem is we cannot easily learn how to date, because we can't learn through observation or advice. And schools don't teach how to date. So, we are left to figure it out ourselves. Lol Post Reply