Thread: What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
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What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
Posted : 6 Aug, 2014 09:09 AM
Hello everyone!
I am a bit of the shy kinda guy, but I do know how to be a little extrovert at times. I wanna ask you this questions because it seems pretty difficult to get a girl's attention. It is like girls don't even wanna talk only. They simply "slam the door" at my face.
I would like some advice, if you're willing to help me. I'm aware that in order to fall in love, date, get engaged and, finally, married we need to talk and know each other. But could this happen if there is no communication?
What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
Posted : 6 Aug, 2014 11:50 AM
Women are generally attracted to humility,gentleness and confidence. Of course if you want a truly "christian" woman you will need to be that yourself, a truly hidden in Christ man.
Just seek God with all your heart and ask for him to provide. Count it as a blessing when a woman "slams the door in your face". God opens doors and he shuts them. Focus on the Lord and get into the word so that you will have more of his heart in you. The more you seek Christ the more he comes to you. Then, you will be more sensitive to his guiding.
Im sure you dont want the "wrong" woman in your life as that is far worse than being single.:excited:
Hang in there! Gods timing is never as we should expect. He is on time every time for your own good. Just hang out with Jesus,be obedient to HIM and in time it will all work out if it be his will.
What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
Posted : 6 Aug, 2014 05:06 PM
Hidden......I couldn't add a thing to your response(smile)! I'd only like to say to our brother......enjoy yourself in this journey for Gods' best(smile)! No matter what your heart desires, His desires for you will out trump yours every time! God's blessings.
What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
Posted : 7 Aug, 2014 10:22 PM
Hi! :)
Hmm, I'd say be yourself and don't worry too much about how you "should" present yourself in order to receive the kind of attention you want. If you aren't being yourself then the lady you want may end of falling for someone who is not you and the relationship will crumble.
Dwell in the word and find yourself in Christ, let your personality and interests show. Without trying, you will get the attention of the right girl.
What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
Posted : 8 Aug, 2014 07:08 AM
just the mention of the word "hidden", i remembered this lovely quote.
�A woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.�
― Max Lucado
You don't have to impress a christian girl to get her attention. Just love the Lord and the girl who loves Him too will notice that. Apply the love triangle formula where the male and the female are in the base points, they travel along to reach the same endpoint, the middle and top point which refers to God. As they strive to be closer to God, them too get closer to each other.
If it is true love, it communicates as demonstrated by God, otherwise, it is not love.
What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
Posted : 28 Aug, 2014 06:23 AM
Attention in a GOOD way, Apostelle! :)
To the OP, sometimes we have to accept that a particular woman is not interested. I had a friend I'll call JD during my college days who was slavishly interested in a particular attractive grad student. He was finishing up his undergrad degree, so she was a step up the social ladder. He was of average looks and she, above average. JD would show up at her office with flowers, leave notes at unexpected times, etc. She eventually started treating him like he was harassing her. If he would have accepted that she was not interested and considered other girls, it would have gone better for him.
As for beginning a conversation, it works best to begin it like one would with anyone else. Notice an interest or something in common and comment on it. Admittedly, some women will not respond. They are uninterested for whatever reason. Maybe someone else has her eye, maybe she sees something in your profile she doesn't care for, maybe she sees nothing particularly interesting, or any number of other reasons.
Many ladies here have posted enough information about themselves that picking up on some interest you share or life experience you have in common is not that hard. If you and she both like to ski, skiing can be a conversation opener, for example.
Within a conversation, compliments are good if they are genuine and not smothering. Imagine if some girl with whom you'd talked only a couple times were to go on about "You are the most handsome man I've imagined! I just can't stop dreaming about your biceps!" You'd think she was nuts! But some guys treat women that way and wonder why it doesn't help.
Ladies, if I'm talking nonsense, let me know. Hopefully it's some help.
What has a man got to do to get a woman's attention?
Posted : 29 Aug, 2014 09:55 AM
Hi :)
Here some tips:
1) Be secure of yourself. There is nothing more attractive than this. Women love to feel security.
2) Say compliments from your heart, women appreciate honesty, not only words that everybody says.
3) Be kind.
4) Try to relax, and most important don't take poses from another guys, you are unique :) I'm sure you'll impress to the right girl, just on the way you're.
And remember each woman has a specific kind of "ideal man" on her head, so don't feel bad if they ignore you, just you are not their type.
