Goodevening . I just have a question and am seeking opinions , all are welcome . If you were corresponding with someone that seemed very interested in pursuing you , and after taking the time to write them a lengthier /more in depth message and you didn't hear from from them anymore......They remove you off their favorites list ,(which one has to go out of their way with intentions to do so), what would you make of this ??? I had someone do this to me , he was sort of rude and didn't bother even replying back a quick hi , nothing , just silence.He purposely removed me from his favorites......Which I will admit I thought was a little shady , I did nothing to deserve that. He was silent for about a week , then he called me out of nowhere !!! I am thinking he didn't like me anymore , and did some shopping around , probably talking to other women . An oh how big of him to give me a chance realizing that there are few prospects that meet his requirements. I also would like to add that he is from another country , supposedly here on a work visa . He isn't American /citizen, which some might say what does that matter . I think it does to an extent , it raises my doubts & creates a bit of distrust/suspicion to be honest.
My main focus was that he removed me off his favorites so easily /rudely, after I wrote him a nice letter on here . To just be dismissed like that after telling him more about who I am , hurt my feelings and concerned me as to the kind of person he is . I felt he was playing mean games , so I blocked him . He decides to call me , days later..........Mentioning that I blocked him . He acted innocent and didn't really own up to his part .
I believe God protects me by providing me with enough sense to keep jerks away . I have also experienced prayer in that I have asked God about someone's intentions , to have that person reveal who they truly are very soon afterwards. I know God loves me & is here for me , no doubt it has been proven . My question is , do you think God is having me pay attention to the ''favorites' issue , (as little as it may seem) , because in fact it is not so little after all ? Is this God's way of showing me the truth in the matter ? Or should I continue talking to this guy ? He is very handsome , has a great degree & career , (so he claims) , why is he single at 31 ? Granted I am still single myself , but haven't you ever wondered if someone is so incredible then how come they are still on the ''market'' ??? There MUST be a reason. Does it add up ? I am skeptical & his behavior makes me question his sincerity.
If anyone has experience with any of this including foreign people in America , PLEASE I'd be grateful if you could respond with any advice /opinions regarding my situation .
Thank you for taking the time to read my post here !!! May God's Grace Be With Everyone Of You ~
I'm kind of new here, but your post struck a chord. I recently experienced something similar, the guy was very attentive with daily messages and such, and we progressed to texting. When i told him i needed to take some time to pray and seek guidance, he got very defensive and cut off communication. He is a non-citizen, has been here for 5 or 6 years (or so he claims). What's interesting to note is that i was praying for discernment and guidance when he sent me the final text telling me he wasn't going to talk to me anymore! I took that as a definite confirmation. I think that an unprovoked reaction like in your case speaks louder than an attempt to reconnect some time later.
