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Would you assume he intends on calling?
Posted : 27 Jun, 2014 01:56 PM

LADIES:

Im taking a poll:



If a man texted you this would you assume he is going to call later that day? Yes or no?



Woman: Phone died?

Man: No. I was cresting the mountain and hit a dead zone.

Can I call u later, after I get settled?





Thank you for participating! :dancingp:

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Would you assume he intends on calling?
Posted : 27 Jun, 2014 04:41 PM

"Assuming" what an individual may do, can have you standing on dangerously, shaky ground(smile)!



However with that said........if the type of relationship and level of integrity established between myself and this gentlemen been well grounded, then there should be no doubt he'll honor his promise!

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Posted : 28 Jun, 2014 10:02 AM

On one hand you use the word "assuming" and then on the other you use "promise". So Im not sure if that was a YES or NO.





The truth is that he fell asleep. He should have apologized before I brought it up and not made the exasperating claim that he was asking in case he decided to!!! So why did he mention getting settled I asked? Ha!!

I have a real hard time trusting someone who stretches the truth. I forgive him him but theres no reason to go any further as far as Im concerned.







Thanks for taking the time to reply. You are a kind thoughtful woman as Ive noticed by your input on some of the forums.





Gods grace to you

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Posted : 28 Jun, 2014 10:06 AM

As far as the "well grounded" thing goes;

we had spoken on phone many times and this is the second time I "assumed":ROFL:

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Posted : 28 Jun, 2014 11:15 AM

SHP.....my point exactly when I mentioned earlier that assuming what another human being may do or think in any given situation, even if you've established a workable relationship, can be nerve racking if not kept in check!



We can never really be responsible for what someone does or doesn't do, but always holding ourselves accountable for our own responses and actions! I feel your disappointment with this gentlemen, if only for the daunting process online dating can be when trying to be consistent in communicating......trying to know one another better!! It's not easy! Online dating is truly not for the faint of heart(smile)! And your instincts regarding not going further in this situation, may possibly be God's way of showing you now, rather than later, what you need to see and know about this person!



And my sister, reading some of your posts I too can sense your sensitive heart(smile). Thank you for your warm words and blessing to you as you wait on His best!

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Posted : 28 Jun, 2014 09:16 PM

I am not a lady, but I think the answer to your question 80% NO. This conversation could be interpreted as follows: he is annoyed by you calling so many times, so he wants to talk to you after he gets settled, which could take multiple days. I don't know what he meant by getting settled, but if he's moving somewhere, then it could take days. If it may take him less than a day to get settled, then he may call you right back when he is ready. I have one advice: Don't overanalyze. :))

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Posted : 29 Jun, 2014 07:05 PM

Calling so many times?

So did you decide to add to my dialogue young fella?

:ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL:

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Posted : 29 Jun, 2014 07:12 PM

Did you add to SHP dialogue that is! :excited:

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Posted : 29 Jun, 2014 07:20 PM

alive: Im sorry but you dont look like a female!!



I directed my question to women for a reason. Buh bye:waving:





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Posted : 2 Oct, 2014 09:11 PM

No. Don't assume. He'll call when he calls. ;)

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