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DaveBressan

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 18 May, 2014 01:39 PM

I'm a single father of a beautiful 6 year old daughter. I'm trying to move on with my life and would love to find someone to share in the family we've built.



I try to be very respectful of the criteria women have on their profiles. I will never contact anyone if I'm out of their age preference, etc.



But when someone says they don't want children are they saying they don't want to have more children of their own or are they saying that they'd prefer not to talk to someone with a young child?



Do you think I'd be out of place to contact someone who says they don't want children?

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 18 May, 2014 01:45 PM

It depends on how it is interpreted by the individual, but the most common interpretation I see is that they don't want to bear children - this may be because they physically can't or because they already have one or more and don't want to go through pregnancy and childbirth again for whatever reason. I don't think in the majority of cases they wouldn't accept you already having one, though statistically a few won't.

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 18 May, 2014 02:15 PM

I think if you sent an email and said just what you said here, at least that's respectful and then the woman herself could choose whether or not she was willing to become a step-mother. Some women may say they don't want children, but might accept a step-child for the right man (you?).

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 18 May, 2014 02:29 PM

Thank you. I hope I'd be the right man from someone.

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 18 May, 2014 03:05 PM

I think you'd be okay in writing someone who says they don't want children. As long as you're respectful they shouldn't respond negatively either way.



I pray you find what you're looking for!

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 19 May, 2014 03:12 AM

Hi,



I'll answer this in another way, im over 66 and would not be interested in having children apart from not able to any way, we have our own 3 grown up adults and 11 grand children,



and age for myself i love children just i wont be looking after any , unless its our grand kids and we'v done that,



...noeleena...

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 19 May, 2014 11:06 PM

As one of those gals that dont want children I say yeah its ok to contact them. I mean its not like your asking them to marry you or anything, your just wanting to get to know them more.



Who knows maybe a lady that doesn't want children might actually fall in love with your adorable daughter too. Stranger things have happen before. ^^

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 8 Jun, 2014 02:00 PM

I like children as many you have or want

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Someone who does not want children
Posted : 30 Jun, 2014 12:21 PM

I just specifically put in my profile. I have one child. I do not want to have any more for personal reasons. I don't mind if you have children of there own.



I had this same question??

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