Author	Thread: a wondering?
Admin	a wondering? Posted : 12 May, 2014 02:06 PM I am typing on my phone, so thee could be errors. In Tex. I been on here for awhile and grown tired. I want know know why is it hard to be loved by women? Its as of all the ladies on here read the same memo on me. Don't have anything with him. I know they don't. If women would just get to know me they will be shocked. I loved the Lord, bit that does not count right? Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 12 May, 2014 06:28 PM online dating works .99% of the time all the time Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 12 May, 2014 06:52 PM Jwgobenyh.......welcome to the world of online dating! Trust me my friend, you are by no means alone! I've wondered myself what brothers thought of me behind the scenes(or screens..lol!!), but to be honest it will always be about what The Lord thinks of me......period! Be strong my brother.....wait upon The Lord! Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 13 May, 2014 03:41 AM Yes brother, wait upon the Lord.His choice, which is the best for you, will come your way. Don't give up. Like my sister said,wait for the will of God and thats what matters. Don't worry about what women think about you,God has great thoughts and plans for your future. I think everyone in online dating goes though that. May God's favor be upon you in your search. Post Reply
View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 13 May, 2014 09:41 AM Perhaps you need to change how you present yourself? Post Reply
View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 13 May, 2014 10:07 AM Yeah, I can lie and say things that are not true. I rather just meet in person, so writing these profiles can be a pain. I never got it down pat. I did find that when I don't have a picture that I get better responses. Maybe removing my picture, which could help. I have another option. Post Reply
View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 13 May, 2014 02:32 PM I hope you ladies won't feel aggrieved if a guy steps onto your patch to offer his thoughts? :laugh: Jwgobenyh, within the space of one calender day, three women have been kind enough to respond to your plea for insight. They aren't all cold and disinterested. Don't waste your precious time lamenting over those who won't give you the time of day. Some will not entertain a stranger unless their carnal nature desires to have them; thereby an angel they may inadvertently reject. I've only been here for two months, but I've quickly come to the realisation that by and large; the search facility and my own inbox aren't where the agreeable women are to be found. They're right here, actively contributing on the forum. Post Reply
View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 13 May, 2014 02:44 PM I been on here for quite a while, on and off for the past three years. I don;t think the ones on the thread for the most part were not cold, but I don't appreciate the assumption that I don't know anything about online dating, or the idea of 99% of the time. This is a dating site, and when one send several emails he expects more ignore. Distance I can understand, and different faith as well. I have other thoughts on why I think women on here react to me. I know I am not perfect by any means. I am sure most of it could be me, but not 100%, i believe it has to do more with pop culture. Thus, the looks, benefits, and money. God bless. Post Reply
View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 13 May, 2014 03:02 PM I need to point out also I do have disabilities, like blindness and deafness. Often women are scared off due to my limitations. I call it shallowness because it just surface and not trying to go beyond the limitations. Often we tend to stay on the surface and look for what makes us happy in a earthly sense. That person with a disability can fill things that a so call normal person can't. I know this is rambling and it will probably go no where, but this is truth. I praise God that Jesus does not rate us by our so called fitness in society. Post Reply
View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 14 May, 2014 06:04 PM Jw, As a grandmother, a mom of a son with a disability, and a special ed teacher, may I chime in? To be honest, you seem to be a rather angry young man. If I was your age, I would be interested . . . until I began to read your "demands" on my actions. I can't respond that we wouldn't be a good match? I can't refuse you? That kind of intolerant behavior is exactly what most women don't want in a relationship. And besides, if someone by looking at your picture or your profile isn't interested in you, why would you want them? Dear brother, seek the Lord. Seriously seek Him. If He has a wife for you, that woman will come. Don't spend your time grieving over the women that don't matter. Spend your time preparing yourself for the one who will. Post Reply
View Profile History	a wondering? Posted : 14 May, 2014 06:50 PM and prHonesty I am not an angry person. Most people see me as a positive Guy. Thanks for your honesty. Like I said I never got this website and profile down pat. I will see its been frustating Post Reply

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