Author	Thread: To stay or not to stay?
CookieOstrich View Profile History	To stay or not to stay? Posted : 27 Mar, 2014 02:16 AM Hello ladies, Just wondering..... I have been on here for nearly a year and I haven't really connected with a good Christian man. Has anyone one of you succeeded with that? To stay on here or not to stay? Thanks! Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	To stay or not to stay? Posted : 27 Mar, 2014 03:15 AM Hello lady dear! Its been a while hey, Are you good? Before I share what I think on what you've asked, can I ask you this question please: Have you tried putting effort in breaking the ice with follows that you might have liked what's written on their profiles or you were waiting to be reached and therefore not reached by good christian guys? Post Reply
CookieOstrich View Profile History	To stay or not to stay? Posted : 28 Mar, 2014 01:29 AM Hi Sissy! Thanks for your response. Yes, I have tried reaching out to some gents that I thought were a suitable match. I have had some conversations but nothing concrete. Hence my query on whether any lady out here has been successful. What do you think? Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	To stay or not to stay? Posted : 28 Mar, 2014 07:10 AM Wow, visiting a disadvantaged kids home on a first date, what an idea. I never would have thought of that especially on a first date. That would really be a humbling experience for both. It would most probably leave a memory that would out smart all memories of your meetings together. That is really thoughtful and selfless! I enjoyed reading your profile. You sound like an interesting someone to get to know or be around with. There's nothing wrong with your profile from my opinion, however I think if you'd edit with maybe one or two more sentences that specifies your ultimate intention for reaching out or being reached out so there's clarity at first side. Don't write it in a way that's gonna reflect you disparate, coz you're surely not. But rather being clear of where you're heading to, since you want more than just an email buddy. Having said the above... You're not saying "let's get married" to anyone that you'll be interacting with, but rather minimizing time waiting through emails with no purpose, just flirting. Then whenever reaching out or being reached out, ask if he has taken time to read your profile before you invest time in getting to know someone. Please read my profile if you don't mind. There's clarity at first side Post Reply
CookieOstrich View Profile History	To stay or not to stay? Posted : 3 Apr, 2014 11:28 AM Thanks Sissy! God bless you loads for your words of wisdom! :-) Post Reply