Author	Thread: How long to wait when responding to a message
tloft82 View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 26 Jan, 2014 11:05 PM I love talking to people and I am a quick responder, but I guess that scares people off, but at the same time I worry if I wait too long I might offend the girl I am talking to. I've been hurt a lot by girls and not good at this so I need help. I'm tired of people ignoring me or just stop talking to me for no reason. How can I avoid this again? Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 27 Jan, 2014 03:33 AM I think its normal to be ignored here. It happens to everyone. I don't think there is a way to get away from it but I will also wait to hear what others say. Just wait and trust upon the Lord.The right lady will come your way at our Lord's timing. Remember the door that our Lord opens,no one can close.And the one He closes no one can open. The bible says "not even the devil can open or close". Post Reply
kv200779 View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 27 Jan, 2014 01:40 PM I have no preference on the timing, as long as the person is not texting me back a hour later, a few min is ok. but have you ever stopped to think that its not the timing that's causing this? maybe its something you said that causing them to have second thoughts, so just be 'casual', don't get to personal unless she starts to first, and try not to be to detailed on certain topics, also remember not to go on and on and on about your ex(s) because its sooooo annoying...hope this helps Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 27 Jan, 2014 04:35 PM Lukia......your response was timely! God bless. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 28 Jan, 2014 05:05 AM Thanks Hisjoymypeace...God bless you sister. Post Reply
View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 9 Feb, 2014 09:12 AM I've had the same exact problem as you man, I don't even get too personal or anything, I just simply say hello and introduce myself and I get no replies from a single woman whatsoever except for maybe 2 or 3......I don't know what's up with a lot of women on this sight but I just find to to be very rude.... Post Reply
ChromeplatedHeart View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 9 Feb, 2014 11:00 PM there is no magic formula. you either click or not... and you usually sense that in a few exchanges. so knowing that you dont seem to jibe, would you rather the lady tell you up front the reason why she doesnt like you, or would silence be considered just as rude? zzz. Post Reply
EstherOfSusa View Profile History	How long to wait when responding to a message Posted : 19 Feb, 2014 06:33 AM there is no time limit, i personally prefer as fast as possible. and like its been said, everyone gets ignored. out of every 20 attempts i make i get maybe one response. but i also keep in mind i ignore people so i should not get offended or discouraged if they ignore me. i cant possibly reply to every message im sent, (the man who said he got ignored when he said 'hi' take note, this may be a reason: ) i personally, usually ignore men who just say 'hi' or 'hi how are you'. im looking for creativity, initiative and something that makes a guy stand out from the rest. if a guy bothers to send me a decent lengthed message, even if im not interested in him after viewing his profile, i will at least reply to tell him im sorry but i dont think it will work. If he puts in effort so will i :) remember, if you guys were destined by God, they would have replied. so if they dont, see it as dodging a bullet :) Post Reply