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If He's Shorter Than You
Posted : 9 Nov, 2013 08:31 PM

I was just wondering, if a guy was shorter than you would he realistically have any chance of you being interested? If so how much?

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Posted : 9 Nov, 2013 09:07 PM

R8E8.....interesting question, yet complex for some women. Myself personally, ummmmmm.........let me make sure I say this without prejudice, my PERSONAL preference is to be coupled with someone who is at least my height or taller. Now I've met wonderful individuals in my past who where shorter than myself, but for the most part we turned out to be platonic in our relationship. Oh btw, many years ago, there was one I dated, but we still ended up becoming good friends.......it just worked out that way.



Now if The Lord presents someone to my life who's shorter than me, yet we both sense a spiritual, emotional and physical attraction, then should I say anymore:yay:!!!

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Posted : 9 Nov, 2013 10:03 PM

The last man I had a major crush on was 2 inches shorter than me. & I love wearing heels.

So, no. Height wont matter too much if you have other wonderful qualities.

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Posted : 10 Nov, 2013 08:07 AM

Height isn't a issue...its the quality of the heart...xo

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Posted : 10 Nov, 2013 05:21 PM

To be honest yes, I think it would, but I�m 5�3�. This is a situation where on-line would be the advantage so I could get feeling for him before I meant him, then the situation would be more complicated (most likely in his favor). But to meat him on the street, yes it would be an attraction.

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Posted : 11 Nov, 2013 12:14 AM

R8E8,



Interesting question. Even though I am naturally attracted to muscular men who are at least 8-inches taller than me, I ended up marrying a man who was neither. Go figure.



Then again, he was my best friend, and I loved him. So, the physical stuff did not matter to me at the time. Heck, if I'd been looking for love when I met him, I would not have given him a second look. I was not physically attracted to him at all. It was only after I'd spent most of my free time with him over the course of a year--as friends--that I came to love him.



And, just as easily, the love I had for him ended when he cheated on me. So, maybe loving a man depends on how he treats me, and maybe how trustworthy he is? Who knows?



The point is moot now, since I am 'looking for love.' So, the guy has to at least appear attractive in his picture(s)--especially if he's not very tall. He's got to be reasonably attractive, so I'm motivated to chat with him and get to know him better.



He does not have to look like Brad Pitt, and it might be better if he did NOT look like Brad Pitt, since I cannot STAND Brad Pitt. LOL! Just saying.



--Cat

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Posted : 11 Nov, 2013 02:33 AM

To be honest a guy who is shorter than me would not have a chance.Since when i was young i have preferred one who is the same height with me or taller,but not shorter.We can be friends but am not sure it can come to love.

Please note that i don't hate or despise the shorter guys since no one creates oneself but its just a preference.

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Posted : 11 Nov, 2013 07:19 AM

I'm five feet tall. The odds are against this eventuality ever occurring. :-)

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Posted : 12 Nov, 2013 07:34 AM

I am usually one of the tallest people in a room. I am also not skinny, not even average. It would take a brave man with serious courage not to have issues with being shorter than me.



I know I have flipped this! :dancingp:

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Posted : 12 Nov, 2013 10:15 AM

Mkay. So say he isn't shorter than you, but is less than 6' or less than the average height for N. American males (5'10")? Does that factor in any way?

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Posted : 12 Nov, 2013 10:57 AM

If a guy shorter than me has enough confidence I am fine with it but my preference is my height or taller. I am more than willing to give up all my heels haha. As for 5'10 that's a good three inches taller!!! Totally fine with the "American average"

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