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Saying I love you
Posted : 11 Oct, 2013 05:48 PM

How long do you want a guy to wait to say I love you to you? I just want to know

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Saying I love you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2013 02:49 AM

Until he does.

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Saying I love you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2013 08:37 PM

.....and when he does, we'll both know it(smile)!

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Saying I love you
Posted : 13 Oct, 2013 01:51 AM

Right on, Hisjoymypeace! We sure think alike.

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Saying I love you
Posted : 13 Oct, 2013 10:28 AM

Well miss blue eyes, you know what they say about great minds(smile)lol!!!!.........

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Saying I love you
Posted : 15 Oct, 2013 06:50 PM

miss blue eyes



no one can say that better... isn't it amazing how simple it is!?!

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1jon310

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Posted : 15 Oct, 2013 07:59 PM

What kind of "Love" are you referring to?



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Posted : 19 Oct, 2013 04:38 PM

Alright I was expecting somebody else to jump on this.



Before telling someone that we Love them we need to be honest with ourselves as to why we are going to say this.



If it would hurt our feelings if they do not say it back then our motivation is most likely that we are telling them that we love them as a method of manipulation so that we can hear it back.



Is it an attempt to coerce them into a situation that we think will advantage us?



If this is a sister (or brother) in Jesus would we tell them this if the situation were absent of romantic subtext?



Bottom line. Are we telling the people in our lives that we Love (Agape) them out of a self sacrificial heart? Or are we telling them that we love (eros, phileo, philanthropia, philautos, philedonos) them for reasons that are lesser or even selfish.



Your turn Sisters



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Saying I love you
Posted : 4 Nov, 2013 11:50 PM

wow! .. it made me think..:rolleyes:

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Posted : 8 Nov, 2013 03:06 PM

Wow 1Jon! Well said!

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