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Hisjoymypeace

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Just for fun ladies, how creative......
Posted : 25 Sep, 2013 07:59 PM

.....could you be in coming up with alternative ways in meeting single Christian men, than the usual, eg. at church, at work, on the internet(smile)lol!! I'm truly all eyes(smile)lol!!

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Just for fun ladies, how creative......
Posted : 25 Sep, 2013 08:37 PM

Well, for me, not very creative!

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Posted : 25 Sep, 2013 10:03 PM

Could not really be a good idea hey,

It may depend again on the type of a person you have in mind as a potential mate, try areas where you're most litely to meet him.



NB (could not be a good idea, keep that in mind)

This one worked for me when I tried it out few years ago when I was in the energy of seaching.

Since one of my requirements are: an ambitious hard working guy whose pationate about business (I personally love business with a lot of ideas God has laid in my mind, though can't persue them now due to many various reasons)



Consider going out by yourself (do not have a friend with since you're in a mission of hunting, friends could be distructing at times) for breakfast in one of those decent restaurants in a bigger mall around your area, (with me was Sandton mall for decency & more virity to pick & choose from since most people who come there on Monday mornings are usually meeting for business purpose through breakfast)



Ensure that you look really hot & decent too as if you're also there meeting someone for business. Bring with your laptop/iped, cellphone & your newspaper so your table is a little hectic but not too much, just so it gives that impression of a business lady like (if you get what I mean)

With you, have your eyes speticles..... would have had to buy reading glass' for that sophistication look as you're busy on your desktop/iped & skolling your phone every once in a while, making calls to friends just so you're talking to someone as sitting there by yourself having your breakfast & a cup of coffee while distructed in your laptop every now & then.



Keep to yourself, don't let your eyes move around the room as if you're checking the cost around. Choose a sport where you'll be more visible for everyone walking in that restaurant, so you give no choice but to be noticed.



When done with your 'business' matters, you have your newspaper to keep you preoccupied. You'll be most likely to be approached,

If not interested on the one approaching, tell him that you're meeting someone if he doesn't mind (until you kinder meet the one who seems like your kind)

May not happen over a day, make it a habit to do that... You'll never know with time whom you can meet.

I was fortunate it happened in 1day, was with a friend though hense I now know that they can turn to be distructive & compromise you points if they miss your mission.



What do you think of the idea?

Do you think you can do that knowing yourself better...?

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sisygirl

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Posted : 25 Sep, 2013 10:16 PM

Your values & morals are of greater importance since you're in a public place, with chances of being approached by any other guy.



You do need the Holly spirits help in all possible ways when coming to descenting,

And cautiousness of many other things that could expose you in danger.

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Posted : 26 Sep, 2013 09:54 AM

Sisygirl......thank you for your input and insight(smile)! It all gives much food for thought..........

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Posted : 26 Sep, 2013 06:16 PM

Try a hobby, THAT INCLUDES PEOPLE (NOT NEEDLEPOINT)�lol . Go to the gun range, or pick up scuba. Once you are certified it�s cheaper than golf or going out for dinner and a movie. And a lot more fun!!! You do meet all kinds of people and have a lot of fun too!!!!

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Posted : 27 Sep, 2013 02:46 PM

Is there such a thing as Christian Speed Dating... I don't know, I directed a secular play about speed dating so researched it, I'm thinking you can probably find one, or maybe the internet "MeetUp" groups, you join (free) in this case the category would be Christian Singles, you'd meet once a month (the group) for an outing.

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