Author	Thread: searching for true love
benexcel View Profile History	searching for true love Posted : 25 Sep, 2013 04:51 PM why is it that ladies from outside their country find I difficult to be friends with g ys outside their own country. Post Reply
mcubed View Profile History	searching for true love Posted : 26 Sep, 2013 05:43 PM To be really honest because I think you (not you personally, but you in general) will eventually try to get money from me. And I don�t have much, and work very hard for the little I do. You may not like that answer but it is honest. It�s not your fault but too many before you. Personally, I like making friends in other countries, I scuba I liked being able to look someone else up and see if they wanted to go diving, when I travel. But this is not a scuba site so really don�t know how to overcome that, except through prayer. Prayer overcomes everything! Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	searching for true love Posted : 26 Sep, 2013 06:18 PM Wow....this question has sure opened up Pandora's box hasn't it(smile)! Well to be honest, for me, living outside of my own country(now residing in the Bahamas, but a native New Yorker), it has by no means been an easy transition, to say the least! With now trying to connect and interact with men in the US and abroad, most I feel, have made a decision about who I am because of where I live, before ever really getting to know the real me. I understand the whole "LTR" stigma, but for most on sites like this, where they live obviously is not in their control.... it is what it is! I've learned over time to not take it personally.......God I believe will make all the necessary "connections" needed for my life partner to emerge(smile)! And if He doesn't......well then I'll have to accept that that is His perfect will too....period! I said all that to say this, there will always be a legitimate reason to why individuals don't really want to connect with folks outside of their states or countries....to each his own! In God's time and in His way, He'll allow that special someone to reach out to you or you to them....in His time and in His way. Just don't give up the faith....be blessed! Post Reply
mcubed View Profile History	searching for true love Posted : 26 Sep, 2013 06:52 PM I love your answer. I am "an in your face" kind of person, but you have class. You said it beautiful! Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	searching for true love Posted : 27 Sep, 2013 10:29 AM Thank you mcubed for the compliment(smile)......your "in your face" trait will obviously be what God will use for you to be a blessing to others.....let Him use it thru you!! Be blessed. Post Reply