This question is directed to all the heart warming ladies on this site, old and young. What is it that makes a human female, a human female? What makes you a she-human? Reproductive organs are pretty obvious. If you may use that angle, then elaborate on the physiological aspects that can't be reproduced in the hospital, for a transexual. I want to know what I will find in (and on) sisygirl, yet also in Teach, and in my youngest sister, and all the filipinos here etc. Please serious answers
Her effectiveness and influence in little things that flows through her nature as:
* Her tears shared
(my answers are gonna be more biblically based)
God Himself is shaken/moved by woman's tears. When He's angry and up to plans of destructions, He often calls for weman to wail, in He's greatness & majesty... He still can't bear tears from a woman. You can double check this in the book of Jeremiah 9:17-25.
He's calling for weman to come & wail for Jerusalem.
This goes as far as your prayers guy not being listened to by God if your wife cries over you. Her tears block your prayers. Can't recall right now where this passage is in the bible.
Which brings me to a question: You being a leader, where are you leading your family to if you, yourself are not ok with God who ordained you a leader in the family if your wife cries to God over you? .... This goes back to the question I asked LTM,
"If I woman risk to entrust you man with my womb, (family)
What's your worst fear as you leading us?"
Onother passage to share about woman's tears is:
Hannah when wailing & asking God to open up her womb so she conceives. In 1 Samuel: 8-18
*Influence/power
Jezebel's treats were as powerful as intimidating even Elijah the very prophet of God. Elijah was not troubled by what he was gonna eat, he knew that God was gonna make a way, until he was warmed that Jezebel was planning on getting him killed... That was when he cried out to God in great fear for deliverance from Jezebel.
Still under Influence:
Ester influenced things with the king for the safety & deliverance of Mordecai & the rest of Israel.
There's Delilah who manipulated Samson to come out with the truth, when all tricks have failed in how to go about killing him, the only way was through Delilah.
Last but not least about woman's power & influence:
Queen Vashti being unwilling to coperate/submit with the king's request. She frustrated the whole nation, all man were worried that their wives weren't gonna follow them anymore since that was done by the very queen.
Those are only the few I can think of now, in answering "what makes her a she-human?"
You've written in onother forum that you'd like to marry a lady of my kind of heart.... My challenges are overwhelming only God knows why...?
I'm often not liked, even in a house of worship.
My kindness is often mistaken for foolishness, people take me for a fool when showing kindness. Girls see a treat as if i'm gonna take their boyfriends.... Once shared this story not long ago,
That I now dress up when going to church, no more jeans & pumps, only when i'm not in a mood. In a way i'm saying to those who are too concerned about me taking boyfriends,
I'm showing them while dressed up for my self more than anyone else, i'm showing that: if only I was in a mission of fishing..... Since I was yet accused in my early days that they should watch out for me, I come to take their boyfriends.... Imagen friend.
So its not nice being me,
But i'm not bothered by that
Since the very few who love me, they really love me. There's no middle class of hypocrisy, we either get along or we don't since 'I might just take the boyfriend'
Can you bear such accusations always when showing up with your partner?
Sisi, I have to be very honest with you. First of all you did very well in your reply, but then you got carried away by a different subject. Any comment I've made under any forum title has been well meant. Even where I said you used a satanic symbol - under forum suggestions. Raising the pinky and pointing finger is a satanic church greeting, but of course God created satan, so it's acceptable.
Back to the subject. Men also can be characterized by influence and power. The bible deductions are great but I fear misinterpretations. The best thing I'm getting from your write up is this line, "Her effectiveness and influence in little things that flows through her nature as . . ." That line came naturally from you, and I need more input from more females. I don't think the answer to this question needs a lot of research, just probably a whole lot of humility and understanding.
Like I told Teach, if a man knows this, then he knows her value to him . . ., which of course goes beyond physical. I hope more females respond. And please let no one be offended over the reproductive organ talk. No need to go there.
Still thinking through the question...but thought this might apply (unknown author). One thing is for sure, no 2 women are alike, generalizations are just that...don't assume because one woman likes/dislikes something that all women will respond the same way.
Well, first it is from her that children comes, no male can ever give birth. The coming together of ovum and sperm can be done naturally or artificially but for gestation, a womb is still needed and that is the human female. I don�t know yet if there are machines that can replace that.
Second, I believe as the one giving birth, it is in her nature as more nurturing. I remember caring for my daughter, I had the patience then to carry her whichever way she is comfortable and go to sleep even if it means I have to hold her all night. So in general I can say that human female are more nurturing.
Third, this refers to my biblical understanding of what a female be to a male. She is created to be a man�s partner, his equal but not superior. I believe in every man�s success there is a woman behind and also the other way around. I believe in following the biblical role of a female it is largely affected by culture. Most Filipinas are culturally submissive and so I think the biblical role is easily satisfied.
Wow! This is huge. I've actually got an answer from sisi, teach and a filipina. Too bad my youngest sister isn't in this site. The thesis (if I may say) from teach is quite elaborate and meaningful. Like a philosopher said in the bible (ecclesiastes), seeking wisdom is like chasing the wind. After reading the bulk, I'm now confident my knowledge has reduced. There's truth to it though.
I don't know how I forgot all about the nurturing aspect, but the filipina put everything in an exceptionally clear perspective. I don't think I'll have that much patience in nurturing.
So the physical and physiological aspects are quite clear. I think it's the aspects in the thesis ,as I call it, is where men find fault. It's terrible to think that a bond between a man and a woman cannot firmly be established due to lack of understanding of her being.
This brings to my mind what sisi asked about men's greatest fear in raising a family. Mine is already in my profile. I love children and I don't like to hurt people, but I'll be damned if I introduce new people in this world that will regret it. A few months back, I met a lady who was breast feeding her new born, and running around her were two other small babies of hers. I got into a conversation with her, and this is one of the things she told me. She said that if it was up to her, she won't even come into this world.
I don't think the problem with guys is taking care of their babies. I think the problem is whether they really want children in the first place. This is what makes marriage important. That's the institution I know it's purpose is for children. Thank you again. You all were helpful.
Wow! This is huge. I've actually got an answer from sisi, teach and a filipina. Too bad my youngest sister isn't in this site. The thesis (if I may say) from teach is quite elaborate and meaningful. Like a philosopher said in the bible (ecclesiastes), seeking wisdom is like chasing the wind. After reading the bulk, I'm now confident my knowledge has reduced. There's truth to it though.
I don't know how I forgot all about the nurturing aspect, but the filipina put everything in an exceptionally clear perspective. I don't think I'll have that much patience in nurturing.
So the physical and physiological aspects are quite clear. I think it's the aspects in the thesis ,as I call it, is where men find fault. It's terrible to think that a bond between a man and a woman cannot firmly be established due to lack of understanding of her being.
This brings to my mind what sisi asked about men's greatest fear in raising a family. Mine is already in my profile. I love children and I don't like to hurt people, but I'll be damned if I introduce new people in this world that will regret it. A few months back, I met a lady who was breast feeding her new born, and running around her were two other small babies of hers. I got into a conversation with her, and this is one of the things she told me. She said that if it was up to her, she won't even come into this world.
I don't think the problem with guys is taking care of their babies. I think the problem is whether they really want children in the first place. This is what makes marriage important. That's the institution I know it's purpose is for children. Thank you again. You all were helpful.
* Genetically, most females are XX while most males are XY.
* Physically, there is less sexual dimorphism in humans than in other species. That is, all women are not shorter or weaker then all men.
* Emotionally, this is very dependent upon one's culture.
* Spiritually, "28 There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus." - Galatians 3:28 NRSV
Each female is as unique as each male...affected by the genetics passed down to her (size, shape, color, even disposition (personality)). She's affected by her environment...some females will not be afraid of 'getting dirty' digging in a garden, changing oil, handling animals, etc while others can't even look at a picture of a snake or a spider.
She will be influenced by her upbringing...did she have brothers/sister, was she the oldest or the youngest...or somewhere in the middle. We're her parents Christians and take her to church? Were her guardians wealthy or poor...will she desire fine jewelry, 'fancy living' or will a simple card or hand drawn picture make her light up? Will she want cut flowers or a plant...a memory for today or a memory for a long time ahead?
How does she relate with her family? Was there fighting and abuse growing up? This happens in Christian homes, too. Does she have a servant's heart or need to be served?
What level of education did she attain? Does she have aspirations to be a career woman or a mom?
None of these are wrong...and no combination is wrong...she is a combination of all these factors...how does she respond to herself and life experiences? Is she bitter, demanding, humble, meek, caring, compassionate, etc?
Unfortunately, there is no secret formula...what world for one woman will make another woman angry. Then when you think you have her figured out, her likes will change...understanding someone (female or male) is a continuing challenge because as long as we are on earth, circumstances will influence us.
I have found trying to understand who I am...what makes me happy, sad, angry, content, etc helps me better understand others...and why I may react to them a certain way. Knowing my likes and dislikes helps me relate better at home, at work, and out and about.
Seek to understand who you are, accept who you are, change the things that you know need to be changed, and be open, attentive to her, others...best to you!
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