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happyjer2911

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Posted : 25 Aug, 2013 04:37 PM

What are some basics things you ask from a man to have before taking things offline?





I said a job that they have had for awhile, GED and driver license...





What are your thoughts.

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teach_ib

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Posted : 25 Aug, 2013 08:26 PM

I usually want to know what makes them believe they are a Christian. I discuss ministries and family views.

I ask a variety of questions to rule out scammers.

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2013 12:00 AM

Hello Happy, Teach

With me it will first be a question of discernment & inquirering from the Holly Spirit, if its safe to meet up with this guy. This assignment can take longer than I anticipated, that's where patient takes place from both parties. Which is a subject on its own that I won't dwell too much on right now.



The second one would be a question of he's seach?

What drove him to online dating?

Why is he single, what could have happened? (being very much aware that I could be told lies, depending on the kind of person that he is, i'd still ask those questions)



The 3rd one,

I'm agreeing with Teach on this one. The question of Christianity. I too will need to understand what is he's understanding of Christianity versus religion? Where does he stand between the two.....?



4th one:

What does he do for living? Its not a question of how fancy is he's career/job, he could be self employed for that matter.

The main idea is finding out if he's he's responsible for he's well beeing in a decent manner than committing crime for living live.



The 5th one,

Is based on how do we relate. Is there a flow in our online conversations?

Subjects that we talk & relate about. Are we just talking to pass time or he's a person that I look forth talking to.

Does he challenge me from time to time, does he make me think out of the box....



Last but not least, the question of safety when meet.

Will he let me decide the place where we meet? (think its only fair if he will)

I'll be the one deciding till i'm comfortable enough to let him decide where he wants to take me. (Girls disappear from meeting online guys inperson. We should really be careful girls)



Thanks Happy. Interesting question!!

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sisygirl

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2013 12:11 AM

Oh on my last answer about me deciding where do we meet,

I meant to say:

Both parties are responsible for their own ride. No one picks or drops anyone off.

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2013 04:35 AM

B. basic I. intrustions B. before L. leaving E. earth

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sisygirl

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2013 07:01 AM

LTM



Ok friendship what do you mean by your reply dear?

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2013 03:59 PM

Just being cute.....



:glow:

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sisygirl

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2013 09:10 PM

Oh ok

And you certainly are cute my friend :rocknroll:

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happyjer2911

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Posted : 27 Aug, 2013 10:55 PM

Thank you all for the thoughtful responses. Women need to be careful when starting a relationship online.

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Posted : 8 Sep, 2013 09:13 PM

Basics..before going offline here at cdff?

I prefer to exchange emails here at cdff before communicating in personal emails. I think the most basic thing to ask for is genuine interest in knowing me more. What if he is comfortable being retired and don�t need a job? What if he did not have a GED but is educated by the world? What if he doesn�t drive? But he is interested in me, lol!

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