Well it depends on a whole lot of secumstances. My personal experiences have tought me to always give a benefit of a doubt, considering that I know how it feels to have more than enough than you can handle, yet I know again how its like to instantely lose everything that you"ve labored for & earned hard. I'd rather look at the reasons first for one to find himself in that situation.
Though before going through all that, It begins with him personally. What kind of a person is he? (Does he reflact the personality & charector of my ideal partner inspite of what he lacks or have at that time)
That one is not inline with the asked question, just had to highlight it, since he could have had it all materially but lacking my desired values & requirements.
Then I would take it from there in deciding if he's worth or not my time spending with him. I honestly wouldn't compromise with poverty in a relationship, since I grew up in poverty, lacking & missing my childhood previlages, I know what it does to a child & if I can help it not for my kids to go through it, i'll do likewise. Though I feel one does deserve a benefit of a doubt if you can observe that he's ambitious, motivated, willing to make necessarily efforts to transform he's life for the better, then I suppose he's kinder worth the chance, provided he meets my requirements.
I won't only be going out with him cause he stands a chance of a better life style, there's weigh more to bear in mind when chosing a partner, its not only a question of love. Can he be responsible as a man? Can he provide? (at times its not even a question of the prize, its more of a little effort in meeting that need)
Remember i'm there to help as a woman in he's life, I can only excell in persuing my gender part if he coperates with me by doing/showing willingness to do he's part too. Therefore it won't be fair to lable or massure him on he's current lacking situation, if he reflacts portantial suitable mate inspite of he's current secumstances.
I believe being a man comes up with lots of responsibilities. Its a loaded packege that one can miss if only focused on material things.
:waving:...Hello sweet Sister...Glad my relpy made you laugh...laughter is good...I'm doing well thank you for asking and I pray hope all is well with you to...I know GOD is so very good to you...It is a pleasure to read your postings here in the forums...God Bless you...xo
WYKD1 shared ~ it appears women are being groomed to be the new bread winners of the world.
*** Bread Winners???...Some women find competing for the $$$ to be the only thing worth living for...Others such as myself Choose NOT to Compete but Complete the man...(Where are you???)...
Women...due to the Womens Rights Movement..which was originally about Equality as Jesus taught this and not about being the Bread Wnner...have reduced many men to being incapable of being the Leader...However...Women as well as Men are Greedy...and people forget that Mamon :angeldevil: is not the True GOD to worship...
Since many women have lost their TRUE place in the Relationship with GOD and man...is it any wonder that they continue to strive for more...more...more...???...Why would the man want a women like that anyway ???...Such a Tangeled :boxing: Web !!!...
Also shared ~ interested to hear how Ladies feel about this?
*** I don't feel anything about it...:ribbit:...I just know that there is MUCH disfunction in this fallen world...and satan doesnt want anyone (soul) to accept the Truth of their own fallen nature...Choices�and out right Denile of Christ Jesus as Lord and Savoiur�and its all for to be the Bread Winner....Go figer that one Martha...:laugh:...xo
P.S�.Yall hava a Happy and Safe Independence Day!!!!...:bouncy:
seeing how the "womens rights movement" has snowballed into the "womens empowerment movement" and seeing words like "responsiblility" and "requirements" i find it very ironic as it appears the bar is being raised higher and higher....
to quote a lady at our church,
"i got a college education, i can now minister!"
my thoughts were,when is a college education required to lift the fallen,cloth the nikked,feed the hungry,visit the sick and inprisoned,baptize in the name of the Kingdom of Heaven?
i guessume that is The Way of the future?
as i get older i more see,i will get out of the way, make room for the future....
my thoughts were,when is a college education required to lift the fallen,cloth the nikked,feed the hungry,visit the sick and inprisoned,baptize in the name of the Kingdom of Heaven?
*** This is where some get all cornfuzed...:laugh:...Its NOT Required to be a Collage or Semenary Graduate to do what Yahshua commanded us to do...
Yahshua~Jesus didn't pick those kinds of people to carry HIS message of the Kingdom of Heaven...he picked everyday ordanary people like us...It is written that Peter was a unlearned man...however...he was the 1st to Identify Yahshua...Christ Jesus as the "Messiah"...the SON of the Living GOD...:bouncy:...Deep calls to Deep...Spirit to Spirit...xo
