Author	Thread: Marriage
Admin	Marriage Posted : 27 Apr, 2013 11:58 PM Do you think a couple's sagging spiritual condition always points to problems in marriage? Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	Marriage Posted : 1 May, 2013 01:55 AM By stating that way it implies that marriage problem is the root of sagging spiritual condition which I believe is wrong because there are unmarried people who are strong or weak in their faith. There are also those who have troubled marriage who grow stronger in faith. I do believe there is greater chance of stronger faith in a marriage of two equally yoked partners. Being such, both/together will surely grow in their faith as there is that deep longing in his/her own self to grow and worship the Lord and doing it with life's partner there is the addition of joy. I believe more that materialism is the root of sagging spiritual condition and everywhere we see materialism is advertised. The new generation is exposed to materialism and made to believe it is the source of happiness. Post Reply
View Profile History	Marriage Posted : 1 May, 2013 04:42 AM That is right Mercy, Anyone can have a good mairrage. It is self that gets in the way. Self is the root of all failed marriages. Not spirituality.... Even atheist can learn how to colaborate and communicate in marriage. Even athiest can work togather with oneanother to meet a common goal. The thing about us christians. i think most of us come from some background that has trama involved. Unresolved trama prevents us from trusting and allowing our selves to be vualnerable. In marriage one needs to be completly vualnerable. In marriage one need to be able to trust completly. I believe the church has failed in leading and teaching families and individuals how to respolve trama. I believe all christaians are well when getting married but I also believe they are illequipped to do so. I my self have been illequipped to be married only till just a few years ago. It has been through personal study and meditation of Gods word concerning marriage that I have. I had to leave go what the church teachs according marrige in headship and submission and learn the true meaning that actually makes sense. I have shared it here and been met with ridicule by so called christians. Even though it completly alighns with scripture they are so blinded in following like sheep. They are unable to see the truth just as I once was. Anyway good luck in marriage all...... Post Reply