Author	Thread: Shallow women.
Admin	Shallow women. Posted : 20 Mar, 2009 11:19 PM At what point would you give a guy the time of day when they ask you out? It seems that many women would reather you went away then speak, and how well must he know you be fore it would be ok to ask? Post Reply
chozen2b View Profile History	Shallow women. Posted : 21 Mar, 2009 08:19 AM Sounds like you may have been in the company of women who were not even worthy to be considered for a date, if they lack the common decency to respond when spoken to. I don't have a specific time frame as to when it would be appropriate for him to ask me out but I would think that we would have encountered each other a few times before he asks. I think it�s a bad strategy to read their profile and then ask if they want to date in the initial contact. I had this happen and found it a bit strange seeing as the gentleman had never asked me one question. Post Reply
angel_in_mn View Profile History	Shallow women. Posted : 21 Mar, 2009 04:21 PM It's kind of hard to answer this question not knowing whether you're addressing speaking with someone on-line or in person (or both?). I would like a guy to wait until there is an obvious attraction/connection between both people. It always seems easier that way. That's probably just me though because I'm kinda shy. I like to really know someone before dating. I don't like random guys asking me out though - like while I am out with friends (or like Chozen said - in the first message a guy sends to you). That's way too forward for me. God bless. Post Reply
chitown101 View Profile History	Shallow women. Posted : 26 Mar, 2009 02:31 PM I think it's important to remember that not only do you need to find a girl that fits your standards, but you must fit that same girl's standards. That being said, it takes some time to figure out if that is the case on both ends, so don't be in a rush to ask a girl out. For me, if I meet someone online I want to ask them questions and get to know them to make sure first, that they meet my standards and second, that they aren't a creep and won't try to take advantage of me if we did meet. There is no specific time frame, it all depends on the person, but i don't think that in any way taking more time makes a woman shallow. Post Reply