Author	Thread: What do you think of long distance relationship?
Admin	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 08:47 AM For most of girls here, I am a man living far far away. But it don;t matter to me because joining the site opens one opportunity for me to meet friends outside Taiwan. I am open to meet girls from other countries and further to relations if possible, and I've left message to some people, but just don;t get any replies. So here is the question: What do you think of long distance relationship? No way just say it, if you don;t mind it seems fine with me,too! Anyway, thanks if you could tell me. Post Reply
Smart2012 View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 09:46 AM If you really love each other it doesnt matter. :angel: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 10:54 AM People can romanticize it all they want, but starting and maintaining a relationship when you can't actually spend any time together is something that most people are not cut out for. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 11:02 AM I have to agree with Tulip, I was in a "long distance" relationship for 2.5 years, and it was only 4 hours away. It was rough for several reasons. It's possible to maintain, but even though we were together 2.5 years, really, it was only like 6 months in a normal relationship, and that in itself caused problems. I didn't feel like we were really ready, and she wanted to be engaged after the first year, etc. So just be prepared. It's expensive, it's lonely, it's straining, and it takes some extreme commitment/patience/trust, with several orders of magnitude depending on the distance. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 03:58 PM I can't do long distance. Even someone an hour away is rough. I need face to face time. Besides, how else do you really get to know someone?? And I surely wouldn't commit to marrying someone I didn't know. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 07:53 PM To me, it depends on how you define "long distance." I dated a guy for a while who lived about 60 miles away (took 90 minutes to drive it, though, because of traffic), and we spent a good bit of time together. The distance was inconvenient, sure, but it didn't stop us from seeing each other. The relationship ended for other reasons. On the other hand, I more recently dated a guy who only lived a few miles down the road...and we rarely saw each other. Our relationship was not geographically long distance, but it was long distance in pretty much every other way. He had very little interest in actually spending time with me; he preferred to talk to me on the phone or via IM. He would schedule dates about twice a month unless I specifically asked if we could do something together. After wasting 6 months on that relationship, we decided that it wasn't going anywhere and we called it off. We were well-suited for each other in most ways, but I needed to know that he actually liked being around me; his behavior indicated that he did NOT like being around me. As for the traditional "long distance" relationship, it's not for me. I'm a quality time person, and I need to spend time with a guy in order to really get to know him. Online communication, phone calls, and Skype can only get you so far. If there's no possibility of meeting easily with the first month of communication, I don't see any point in hoping for anything other than online friendship. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 22 Dec, 2012 06:53 AM This surprises me coming from women because I thought intimacy for women was based in honest communication. With that said I have a 2year relationship 7000 miles away. Our relationship is solely based in relating. Is is alot of work? You bet it is. The thing is we have established we are able to do the work together. When we marry this new year we will then have all the bennifit of a great relationshgip and now face to face exploration. In the beginning when Adam and Eve hid from God and eachother they lost intimacy. We gain intimacy by honesty. Honesty is the core of relationship. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 23 Dec, 2012 08:00 AM i think bcpianogal has made a clear statement of long distance relationships for most girls looking for a relations on dating sites. Even though, I;ve tried it and still looking for the Lord's answering my prayer for He's great and faithful. I;ve read scriptures earlier and i'd like to share, it says" The woman fled into the wilderness to a place prepared for her by God, where she might be taken care of for 1,260 days." Revelation 12: 6. I was comforted by God;s answering my prayer for I know she is under God's protection now. :glow: Post Reply
iamsoblessed333 View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 08:32 AM refer to testimonials and get inspired...:applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 21 Jan, 2013 09:12 AM Having a relationship with someone or to anyone knows no boundaries. It's usually the people involve in it that put that boundary in their own thoughts. Technology has made it possible to connect to people. The more you communicate, it deepen that level of connections, in which loving, trusting, and being committed becomes so natural between you two. These i guess are the most important to build on the process. Once you've established those, the result is the Physical Connection. and probably would happen sooner than you might think. :glow: ~WHL~ Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you think of long distance relationship? Posted : 25 Jan, 2013 07:59 AM good point! Post Reply