Author Thread: PROPAGANDA IS MESSING OUR MY FLOW...
Moichepit

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PROPAGANDA IS MESSING OUR MY FLOW...
Posted : 21 Aug, 2012 01:01 PM

LADIES, Please, Palun, porfavor, S'il vous pla�t





Ok, we all know that now a days more people are accepting of different cultures/ethnicities which is awesome. But what I have been noticing over the years is that more men are looking into being with someone from another race, but for the wrong reasons.



Allow me to explain:

It been hard for me to find someone (Yes... Christians!) who would go for me and not how I am built physically. Being of mixed race and the skin color that I am, I tend to get STEREOTYPED both physically and mentally because of women in music videos who are usually of color and Spanish shows/soap that are all about curves.



Believe it or not, I have a couple of friends in the same boat feeling self-conscious about themselves because they are woman of faith and can't seem to find men who would appreciate what is truly important, a woman of God, values, family. What ever happened to the good old days when that was the least important?!



Is there any women out there who are skinny,curvy, tall, short who feel my pain???





God Bless!



(Men, please do add your opinion)

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PROPAGANDA IS MESSING OUR MY FLOW...
Posted : 1 Sep, 2012 07:59 PM

I think that instead of lamenting that you have an attractive figure, you should be thankful.



Also, what is wrong with a guy (or woman) being attracted to what attracts them? I have family and friends who are attracted to people that I can't stand--but they're perfect for them! I know men who like fat women, but I do not.



I know men who think some women are just too skinny, but I'm totally OK with skinny, or even size AA women.



God made us each with our preferences, and I do think that society does play a role (for instance, American women like to get a nice suntan, but Japanese and Chinese typically try to protect themselves from the sun), but God knows we have preferences for physical beauty in addition to the state of a person's heart.



The Bible even talks about physical beauty as a good thing.

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