Author	Thread: suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up
victorious52 View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 12 Aug, 2012 11:43 AM last sunday she says she wants to meet, but she emailed me and on sunday forgetaboutit ok i am not home or very busy! i give my number and then she tells me she is available this friday on friday she doesn't call or anything, hence the poem in the new discussions area, lol, on saturday she says she is available! lol , is she for real! i tell her perhaps 10pm on sunday night might be ok, sent her a link of a map with a dunkin donuts nearby, heck saturday i was very tired and did some evangelism work! by 10 pm i was asleep i think! [gone are the days of breaking night for me,lol] she still hasn't called me, i mean i always thought women like to talk with a guy first, or chat, i always thought the protocol was email, chat, cell, meet, but with this girl, i might have to be very careful! lol i have never had this happen to me yet! and i was wondering if you girls ever met a guy before you actually talked with him first? i mean ok, i do have videos on youtube but it's not the same thing, no spontaneity! maybe i will ask her to meet me in some mcdonalds inside some walmart, at least there they have cameras! lol no cell phone number she can't be traced! lol.. hmmm that may be an idea why! Post Reply
View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 12 Aug, 2012 12:47 PM I email a lot then phone to maybe I will meet, sometimes that doesnt happen after the phone conversations. I can only speak for myself here. Many women do many different things.lol Not sure what this gal is doing but just come right out and ask her. I am always UpFront with men. Post Reply
teach_ib View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 12 Aug, 2012 01:01 PM Sounds like she is stringing you along. Post Reply
victorious52 View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 12 Aug, 2012 02:31 PM yeah later on i will tell her to call me up if she wants this to progress, this makes no sense to me! and besides that, what if she sounds like a guy! lol i can't date a woman who has a deeper voice than mine! lol and i sometimes i have sung bass in the choir ok! perhaps your right she is just stringing me along, but what is the reason behind it? the string gets frayed after a week in the rain of frustration lol! i mean it's just a meet right, not a date! Post Reply
victorious52 View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 03:34 AM lol check this out ok i get this message she:That is a bit to late for a girl to be out on a week night. I work at 7am. Let me know when you are free again me: we could meet at the mcdonalds inside walmart on gibsonton dr near Interstate 75 on tuesday after you get out of work, what time do you get out? call me or send a text to confirm ok, it seems to me your frightened to just call me so you can text me from the net or call me using that restricted number or blocked number thing. and walmart has cameras just about everywhere , very safe for you ok. and if you just want to use this means of communication i must have at least two days notice ok. sometimes i have appointments for job and ministry and i just can't do things quickly right now. so for tuesday night i have to know right now! sorry for the situation but i really can't do anything about it ok. I do all my appointments 2 or 3 days out, weekends and evenings are pretty busy for me, many people are in their homes and thats when i make my money mostly ok. i then went back online at 1230am and saw her online! and i think a meeting should take 30 minutes or an hour for the first time around ok, if that ok for you, i see your offline now, must have gotten off just before i sent you the other message, so if you let me know on monday we can have the meeting for wednesday at the gibsonton walmart after you get out of work ok? blessings vic she still refuses to call me up? lol i wonder if she snorts like a pig when she laughs?! :ROFL: i can't be with someone who sounds like an animal i like to eat ok! :excited::eat::yay: this gets better and better! :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 10:26 AM I don't like anyone getting played or lead on. My advice, she is REALLY a he or she is playing/leading you on. You deserve someone who wants to get to know you, be it in person or at least phone. The math does not add up. She is hesitant to talk on phone but she supposedly claims she would meet you? I would think meeting is more nerve-racking than talking on the phone. Just look at all the inconsistencies, the plans failing, and please realize you are better off just writing her one last message wishes him/her the best of luck on her search. That is just what I would do. I'm sorry if this offends you I just don't want anyone to take advantage or play with someone's mind. God bless and good luck. Post Reply
victorious52 View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 16 Aug, 2012 10:29 PM she keeps looking at me ok bro! and i don't even look at her profile anymore! i don't have time for games! i need a woman who is ready to progress at her level of comfort! but uhh as things stand right now she can come to the walmart if she wants to meet! you know maybe that might not be a bad idea! it is very safe for her and me! lol either that or have her dress up in arab garb and have her meet me in the airport, i'll have her make sure to bring a big shopping bag, and in it she can put an alarm clock, some wires and a piece of tubing, or some brown clay with some more wires hanging out of them! if she acts crazy , i yell, SHE SAYS SHE HAS A BOMB AND SHE SAID ALLAH AKBAR! and i'll just leave as she gets tackled by like 50 cops! lol Post Reply
victorious52 View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 19 Aug, 2012 06:42 PM Crayola View Profile History suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 10:26 AM I don't like anyone getting played or lead on. My advice, she is REALLY a he or she is playing/leading you on. You deserve someone who wants to get to know you, be it in person or at least phone. The math does not add up. She is hesitant to talk on phone but she supposedly claims she would meet you? I would think meeting is more nerve-racking than talking on the phone. Just look at all the inconsistencies, the plans failing, and please realize you are better off just writing her one last message wishes him/her the best of luck on her search. That is just what I would do. I'm sorry if this offends you I just don't want anyone to take advantage or play with someone's mind. God bless and good luck. +++she has now blocked me,lol! what the freak! lol oh well , as the little rascals would say "she'll never learn", lol but she keeps looking at my profile,lol ! what is up with that? does she expect me to create a new profile just to email her back? lol she is a he...rofl! Post Reply
Moichepit View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 20 Aug, 2012 03:18 AM Simply put... "LET GO!" Oh yeah: and that message that you left her online after she did not respond to your text to meet, DON'T DO IT AGAIN. It was kind of stalkerish. Lastly you ARE better than that and if she is looking at your profile, be certain that she is either starting to realize what she missed or she is actually a true disturbed person. Bendiciones! Post Reply
INHIMALONEISTAND View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 21 Aug, 2012 11:31 AM Please be careful... I say this because there are many scammers on these types of sites. I actually ran into one on a different Christian dating site. It took me almost a week to realize it. I finally did a google search on him name, email, and phone number. It could not be traced... This got me questioning even more. Eventually i found out he was a scammer and I reported him. There is actually a website called scammers4u that you can enter their email address and I believe their phone number to find out if they are on the scammers list. Obviously these people ues many different emails, phone numbers, and screan names. If you have any doubts about this girl I would really do some researching and digging. I hope this does not hold true for you but please be careful and God Bless! Post Reply
Cainy View Profile History	suspicious about this girl she wants to meet but doesn't call me up Posted : 13 Sep, 2013 10:12 PM Perhaps you are barking up the wrong tree, Victor. Cainy Post Reply