Author	Thread: wondering why I get no views
keithl27 View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 28 Jul, 2012 05:17 PM On my dating profile which can be seen at http://www.christiandatingforfree.com/view_profile.php?userid=311440 I'm getting no views or responses. I'm thinking that I'm very unattractive looking and girls don't find me appealing, or maybe it's my writing. Can any girls on this forum help me? Post Reply
teach_ib View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 28 Jul, 2012 07:47 PM Keith, It's possible your profile is being viewed-there is a way to set a profile to not show when you view someone's profile. I reviewed your profile...I did't see any issues with what or how you portrayed yourself. Your photo is fine and you are not ugly or repulsive. Are you sending notes to women that peak your interest...a quick hi, I liked your profile...with some questions about items in her profile? God bless you in your search. Post Reply
betty85 View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 04:02 PM Hi Keith, Be bold. The best way to get noticed is to view profiles, send winks, and especially send messages to them. If you read something interesting in someone's profile, send them a message and start a conversation about it. Post Reply
View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 04:29 PM Brother, I viewed your profile and my impression of you is a heir of innocence as if you have been sheltered most of your life. I was quite the opposite and I also had difficulty relating with women. My best advice is find a woman you dont feel threatened by and just get to know her as a person. Even if you dont feel attracted to her you will practice just being with a woman. Practice goes a long way brother. Find women who would be interested in just meeting for coffee or a soda one time is all you need with her. But dont tell her or ask her if one time is alright...............Just do it... If you ask such a question you will never get a date :) I did this because of other reasons. I need to learn how to see women as people and not just objects. So I had multiple dates with many women most just once and some more than once. As you do this your confidence will grow and you will beging to pick out certain qualities you appreciate in women. One day God will bring all of those qualities together in the woman you will cherish as your wife. Cherish her you will. Strength, Honor, Humility & Gentleness, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 31 Jul, 2012 10:10 AM I think you should put more pictures up. Post Reply
View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 06:27 PM Keith, you are not ugly or repulsive! You are not bad looking at all! I'm not sure why people aren't replying, but it's their loss! Don't worry, someone will reply! Post Reply
spycegirl522 View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 6 Aug, 2012 06:11 PM Hi Keith. I took a look at your profile and I think it could use more. I am the type of woman who loves to read profiles. It's actually a turn off for me when a man just has "ask me" listed on his profile and nothing else. I'm always thinking "Ask you what? You didn't give me anything to go on." My advice is to add more on your profile. Answer some of those profile questions, put some funny trivia up, anything that that spark a conversation. Happy Blessings on your search! Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	wondering why I get no views Posted : 7 Aug, 2012 09:42 PM Out of curiosity I looked at your profile, brother. Now, I dont claim to be an expert, no man is as far as women are concerned, but the first thing I would change is the "manly man" comment. As others have stated, open up more about yourself. Tell about who you are, not just your education and such. It makes it sound as if you are interviewing for a job. Tell about your beliefs, any hobbies you may have, your views on life, etc. Let the ladies here know the real you. Post Reply