What are good clues for a guy to know if a girl is interested in him more than just being friends?
Posted : 28 Mar, 2012 09:51 PM
I deal with fear of rejection. I am friends with a girl that I would be interested in persuing a relationship with, but I do not wanna take the chance she doesn't feel the same way and risk making the friendship awkward and losing it. What are your best tips on finding out if she maybe interested as well? Does the old school thing of having a friend ask what she thinks or asking "Random" questions and then letting me now if I have a shot sort of thing?
What are good clues for a guy to know if a girl is interested in him more than just being friends?
Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 07:23 AM
Ask her if she is interested, or ask her out. And if she says no, continue being friends with her the way you are now.
There's nothing wrong with showing interest, and while it may be risky and uncharted territory, it really is flattering more than anything else to think someone is interested in you. If you can be honest with her and receptive to her answer, whatever it may be, the friendship doesn't need to suffer. It's really a compliment to her that you like her, so it would be silly to take it badly.
What are good clues for a guy to know if a girl is interested in him more than just being friends?
Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 04:56 PM
I was trying to figure this out last week. I would recommend that you just tell them how you feel. If they are a friend than they will nicely let you know that they aren't interested (what happened to me) and if they do like you then even better.
For me, her and I are still friends she is coming over to watch a movie with me, but we are and will only be friends. She is a great friend and I asked why she thought "I was awesome" but I wasnt Boyfriend worthy. She told me and now I understand.
What are good clues for a guy to know if a girl is interested in him more than just being friends?
Posted : 3 Apr, 2012 06:43 AM
Hi Nighthawk,:waving:
I think that you are right. It would make a what seemed like perfect friendship fill awkward for some. You could just ask, be told you're not the one, and possibly lose what you do have. But then again you would never progress further than friendship if you don't find out.
First, make sure that she is not already in a relationship. I don't know if you are buying her things but if you are not, and she likes hanging out with you. You may have something. If you are buying her things, it still does not mean that you guys could not have something but it clouds things. Notice also how much of your personal space she is in. Not you getting in her personal space but her in yours. If she enjoys being closer than arms width away, again you may have something. And the closer she gets to you the more of an interest she has in you. Does she look at you or "look" :glow:at you. You will know the difference. Is she flirty in a clean way. I am hoping that she is a Christian when I say this, if not and you are, you may not realize it now, but you really don't want more than a friendship with her. Pray and study the bible with her if she agrees to it.:prayingf: God has a way of bringing people together in unity when they are learning and growing in him. The Jesus in the two of you will cause a connection and a pure love like you have never known. I guarantee you that the rest will be history. If she does not want to study the bible, RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, keep running, and never look back. Or just remember at this point, the two of you should remain friends. This may be heard to hear, but some women are just players. They just lead men on with no good intentions at all. The saddest part about this is that they leave men with calloused hearts so much so that when they meant honest women with the purest intentions they shut them out and miss out on what could have been a blessed relationship. Remember and trust, if God closes a door, he knows what is best and will open another. Hope this helps.
What are good clues for a guy to know if a girl is interested in him more than just being friends?
Posted : 15 Apr, 2012 09:31 PM
If she is truly interested, she will respond Positively and with a smile when you ask her out. Maybe it's time for THE XONVERSATION...find out without any pressure how she feels and which direction she sees the two of you going. It doesn't make any sense to keep investing your time energy and efforts into someone who has no intention of working toward a mutual goal together,.
A big word of advice,:stop: prepare your heart to accept whatever she says. Keep your emotions and feelings under tight reign. Be prepared for a yes or no, and be respectful whichever way it goes. If she wants to remain just friends, then rejoice that you have that and then start seeing the relationship as a friendship, conduct yourself as a friend and nothing more. Move on to someone else who is ready for your investment.
It's always best to approach any interactions as friendship ALWAYS and nothing more until both people have THE CONVERSATION and see where it's going. Both have to be on the same page...man up and ask...maybe thats all shes waiting on. :hearts:Don't get your heart or emotions involved until you know you want it to go on to the next step. It won't hurt so much if you go about your relationships in this manner.
Giving your heart away too soon is usually a recipe for heartache.
When is the best time to have THE CONVERSATION? If you are calling, texting, IM, dating for a few weeks...yeah it's time. But it shouldn't happen on the first or second date. Jes saying....:dunce:
