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How to get attention of a girl here?
Posted : 28 Mar, 2012 09:39 PM

For a guy like me (check out my profile) how would I start getting to know someone this site? I rarely get messages from anyone.

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 07:24 AM

I would recommend messaging people that strike your interest.

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 08:00 AM

I tried that.. But people don't respond.. I guess people don't use the site as it is intended to be

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 08:19 AM

There are a lot of "dead" profiles on this site...people have moved on, don't log in anymore, etc., but there is no way to know that prior to sending a message. When someone doesn't respond to a message, I go to the "Sent MSG" tab and check to see if they ever read it; if they did not read it, I assume the profile is "dead", and if they DID read it, I assume they are not interested.

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 08:58 AM

I don't even have to look at your profile to tell you that no matter what women say, they all have a certain level of vainness. So you must first look your best. Put a really nice pic of yourself on your profile. Once you do this and get the door open(a contact), and you really should; you should be able to charm yourself in the position that you want to be in. First impressions are lasting impression so remember that your first contact or message is of utmost importance. Prior to doing any of this, pray. You really don't want a contact from anyone that God does not approve of. It is better to get no contacts than a thousand bad ones. According to God's will, be blessed.

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 04:23 PM

I want to give you some pointers on your profile but I do not want to post them publicly without your permission. I would send you a message but Im thinking that the age limits you set will not allow it.

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 07:15 PM

A lot of people don't respond. But you don't need a lot of people to respond, you just need the one. It may take one message or many (to different people - persistent messages to one person get kind of creepy).



It sounds unfeeling, but I really think it's like looking for a job. You may submit a hundred applications, and only get five interviews. Out of those five you may only get called back by two. But you only need one.



So you have to send out a lot of "applications," so to speak.

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Posted : 3 Apr, 2012 07:22 AM

First impressions last, try the following:



a) Have a profile picutre where you are smiling. I think the image of you outside would make a more ideal main profile image.



b) Share more about your hobbies and interests in your profile and keep the topic light hearted.



c) Try being more unique and dont start message with boring sugject lines such as 'hi''....write something which is going to catch somebodys attention.



d) Ask the lady genuine questions about herself which require a longer answer than 'yes or no'.



Hope this helps.

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2012 05:34 PM

Hi ice kid

First thing you should do is change your profile picture .I think you should use the middle one where you are outside...also your profile is too long �also you see the thread that�s showing on your page �how to get attention of a girl� delete that so it�s not showing on your page anymore ..Matter a fact delete that before you do anything else �confidence is the key �hope this helps�soda

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