Author	Thread: haha pointers anyone?
Admin	haha pointers anyone? Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 12:55 PM Alright, I'm going to a christian college currently to become a youth minister and hopefully find a good christian wife. I know I'm really young still, but i have yet to have my first kiss and was wanting to save it for the alter. the farthest i've ever gone with a girl is holding hands and maybe a hug or two. Even at a christian college when a girl finds out about this they tend to get turned off from it or just laugh at me because of it. Is this something thats worth holding on to? or am i just getting my hopes up on something that really doesnt matter to anyone else but me? Post Reply
View Profile History	haha pointers anyone? Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 01:22 PM Is this something thats worth holding on to? or am i just getting my hopes up on something that really doesnt matter to anyone else but me? I think this is a personal question. What made you want to wait on the kiss until the alter? I dont think I would laugh at you if I found out about this (if I was in college) I think my character would just see it as something a person decided to do because of a commitment factor. I think we all CAN get some measure of doing alot more or holding back (reframe) ourself's from somethings than any body else would subject themselves to. I would hate to give you a go ahead and wait or dont wait response because this is all YOU and it has to mean that much or not to you. I dont think a girl would love you any less if you did or didnt but I dont know that either these days. Post Reply
chozen2b View Profile History	haha pointers anyone? Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 02:12 PM ...Is this something thats worth holding on to? or am i just getting my hopes up on something that really doesnt matter to anyone else but me? If that is your personal conviction, why change it because others don't feel the same? I believe when you find the right one for you, the person would be honored to learn of your committment. As you already know, everyone wearing the Christian title are not all practicing the same principles. Chozen2b Post Reply
View Profile History	haha pointers anyone? Posted : 11 Feb, 2009 05:06 PM alright, thanks for your insight ladies its much appreciated =] Post Reply