Author	Thread: som confused things in a gal
ken321 View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 3 Feb, 2009 02:46 AM I have been i relationship s an i knw this stuff.but i cant understad some things in girls are just cofusing usuall if you takin within a month ( my experience) some girls will talk and be happy so hapy at the start of the month then sunddenly at some time within the weeks they just become so much dull and angry ( i realy lik to know this cos its confusin) when you ask them y? they say nohing honey i am fine but i knw its not fine..then they boom out again happyly after a time.they never answer that question...could someone tell me y if you dont think this is a silly post...coz if gals are like that how will our wives be. Post Reply
View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 3 Feb, 2009 07:20 AM exactly. You sir are on the right track with your thinking... As I am reading your 'question' I was thinking the lady has lost interest in you. Then you tell of how she is happy in her chat after that. Confuses me. (and God is not the author of confusion). Pray for her. Take it to Jesus. Is good to focus on the things that don't make sense, over looking things early on may establish a patern of doing this...which may lead to hurt and disappointment. I think you are donig just fine sir. May God lead you to that unimaginable relationship He has for you....smiles Post Reply
View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 3 Feb, 2009 10:04 AM Haha gentlemen.. have you ever heard of the term, menstrual cycle? Whether you understand or not, in some women (not all) it can have huge affects during that time of the month. This might not be the case for all, but the problem with that girl might be her lack of communication. Because personally, trying to be fair, I would forewarn anyone I was in a relationship with if I am going to be a little bit more hormonal for the next several days. But I would suggest just work on the communication part, because whether it was a menstrual cycle, a lost connection, or whatever her problem may be, good communication could ease up the confusion on your side. Best of luck! God Bless! -Leigh Post Reply
ken321 View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 4 Feb, 2009 10:39 PM hi Larice Many thanks for your post.Oh! but you evn confuse me further i gues there are things we men will neve get to know ha? well honestly i havent know this cycle stuff ? i nevr had sistrs to tell me hehe:glow: and i never botherd to know but this is interesting not for anything els but whats the big deal about this? since this s an ask a gal question coz only a gal will knw this? I might never know & if i donts marry i will nevr evr knw hehehehe...i think me should knw first of all be4 i marry.... Post Reply
View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 4 Feb, 2009 11:55 PM My dear brother Ken, Check this. Remember when Adam and Eve fell after eating the apple and God laid out the curses and made the serpents legs disappear and now they had to crawl on their belly, Adam had to work by the sweat of his brow, and Eve would have to have children in pain. Eve's curse of bearing children in pain is this menstrual cycle that sister Larice speaks of. Every month God sends an egg called an ovum down her reproductive organs and if the egg is fertilized a baby is created. If the egg is not fertilized then the womans's body expells or pushes the egg out of her body. This involves bleeding and her hormones are thrown all out of whack sometimes causing a woman to get a bit cranky at times. This happens every month for most of her life or at least between the ages of say 12 thru 50 ish (could be wrong here). This is not fun for our sisters Ken. As men our job is to not only be understanding but be supportive. Communication is a great key that Larice suggests. Women need to be able to talk my brother. Not that men don't need to but its especially important to woman. Its all good my brother, I pray that your friendship with your lady will grow deep roots. By the way, I'm in the medical field as well as an avid reader, lol, in addition, i'm more curious than any cat I know and God has answered many of my questions to Him. That's how I know all this stuff. Sisters, feel free to correct me in any way necessary, for I can definitely be off here. Blessings. Robert Post Reply
ashlynnmarie View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 6 Feb, 2009 04:30 AM it's probably her time of the month. Sometimes girls don't want to talk about things, because they know it's dumb and they are over reacting and what not. I know when I'm not in a good mood on my time of the month, I usually just don't talk, mainly because I know I'll be irrational, so I rather not even talk. It's just a girl thing, and I think most girls go through those "I'm fine" sentences on their time of the month. But if she isn't on it. Well then buddy I don't know what to tell you. Communication play a big role in a realtionship. Post Reply
ken321 View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 6 Feb, 2009 10:34 PM Oh! I See now brother..Science allaround....medicle terms...WoW!! Women are ( pardon me for saying this gals) so.....complecated....its easy to understand rocket science than figuring out whats going on in a girls mind....:winksmile: Post Reply
ken321 View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 6 Feb, 2009 10:38 PM yep sister !!! she did go onto say "I am fine" "I am fine" " nothings wrong" I am Ok" and i dont know about these gals things but i do need to know whetehr it differs with every gal.... Post Reply
View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 7 Feb, 2009 04:52 AM Ken, Let me try to help as an older guy who has been there, and has the scars to prove it. All women are a little different during this time, but the one thing you can count on is, they are much more emotional. Some just want to be left alone, others want you there holding her hand through it all. You just have to get to know your lady. Even more important, you have to be stable. you can't do everything right one day, then blow her off the next. This is a time when you can make or break a relationship. Gentle love and understanding are what she needs, not frustration or anger. It really is not that big of a deal, just use a little common sense. Blessings, Leon Post Reply
ken321 View Profile History	som confused things in a gal Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 01:32 AM Yep brother leon I understand ....Ok but i have heard things like " at a time like this u cant approach a women" ( excuse me for saying these ladies,i am an inquisitive character) or " they are not hygenic" no thse dont bother me at all coz I have even wonderd why in the whole wide world do gals take so many baths( c'mon people tis a fact ok not any offence) so tel me someone...are all tis true coz i gotta revolve my future around these things ....how can i fear my wife hen she is going though tis how can i devolop intimacy if this sounds so vicious a thing...I know the bio side of it now i know the emotional side of it now ok sowhats the social side of it...and also Inquisitive me would like to know for this thingto be so important and irritant is it something that hurts a girl so bad or what makes it so irritating..... Post Reply