Author	Thread: Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys?
Admin	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 26 Jan, 2009 09:23 PM Hi.I'm new to this site and I have a question. Why do some of the sweetest girls go out with some of the baddest boys? I'm not jealous of these bad boys and just in case your wondering, to me a bad boy is someone who drinks excessively,uses alot of profanity,and has a bad attitude. I know some of them have personal problems and that's why they are the way they are, but do these girls really have to go out with them? Why not help them by getting to know them as their friend and then share Jesus with them that way? God bless anyone who reaches out to them but do they really have to go as far as become their girlfriends? Any advice on the matter will really be respected and appreciated. Thank you and god bless. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 26 Jan, 2009 09:44 PM Hello, I think it is just a phase some women go through when they are younger. I am 47 now, but when I was in my late teens and twenties I too was attracted to the bad boys. Some weird kind of excitement, kinda like being a thrill seeker. But the good news is that we grow out of it. I think toward my late twenties and early thirties I was sorry that I had let the good ones go. That's my take on it. God bless, Lydia Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 26 Jan, 2009 09:57 PM Thank you and god bless you for replying Lydia. I used to be jealous of these kind of guys when I was in High School,but as I focused on my relationship with god he let me know that I shouldn't judge these guys because they are his children. Come to think of it I might of did that by labeling these types of guys bad boys.If any other guys view this and used to be like I described in my first post, I apologize. It's just a question I've had for a long time but never asked. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 26 Jan, 2009 10:05 PM I think many of us used to be like that, but I don't take offense when someone talks about them. I am just thankful that this no longer describes me. I wasn't a nice person back then, I like me a lot more now. Blessings, Leon Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 26 Jan, 2009 10:11 PM Leon God bless you brother.I've seen alot of your post on these different forums and it's a pleasure to get to hear from you. Keep on doing what you're doing and may god bless you and keep you safe.Amen.:angel: Post Reply
chozen2b View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 30 Jan, 2009 12:25 PM I think there are several reason why good girls go out with bad boys such as: 1) the desire to experience something new outside of their personal comfort zones 2) unresolved issues from our past 3) sometimes the missed placed assumption that we can actually change them. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 30 Jan, 2009 02:18 PM I have found that bad boys are the ones with the most self confidence as well, and this is the one thing that is attractive to everyone, male or female. Just my thoughts, Leon Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 30 Jan, 2009 05:15 PM Hi! I am young, but already went through my little phase of the bad boy scene. I learned the first time, now many of my friends, I can't say the same for. As I watch them, time and time again, get hurt, and just in simple words make themselves look stupid, I have come to a conclusion. I think women/girls/ladies of all ages, shapes and sizes want to be the one to "change him" for the better. They want to be THAT girl that made him do a complete turn around. Just from my personal experience a lot of us like a challenge, a chase, sometimes even a good project. But it is wrong of us (sometimes we do it with out even noticing) to make someone of the opposite sex that project. It takes some time for some of us to learn that we shouldn't go into a relationship wanting to change that person, and we should try to help people by being their friends. But sometimes they get sucked in as well. Some women never learn, and will continue to do it, but I would just say to good men, to keep being yourself, and befriends those girls and guys that might need your help. And God will send YOUR woman, your way.. soon enough! :) God Bless! Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 30 Jan, 2009 08:07 PM Thanks Larcie. That was the way I've been starting to see it. I think it is true that alot of girls/women do go out with these guys, just for the challenge of trying to change that bad boy into something better. It's great when these girls suceed and emotionally devastating when they don't. I just worry because when these girls really get into these guys they either get their hearts broken or they join in to their guys lifestyle especially if their faith in Jesus is weak. All we can do when that happens is to pray for our sisters that fall that way. We all at one time or another sin but we must learn the errors of our ways and ask the lord for forgiveness. May god bless and continue to bless all of you.:angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 30 Jan, 2009 08:11 PM Sorry I spelled your name wrong Larice.I Spelled it Larcie. Sorry about that. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 31 Jan, 2009 07:29 PM I could say the same thing happens the other way around, I could ask the same question worded like: Why do nice guys want to go out with women that lie and cheat on them and not even give a girl like me a second glance? But I am not really worried because I know that there is someone out there for me and I am waiting on Gods perfect match in Gods perfect timing. you seem to be a really nice guy and remember , there are others that have been where you are now. Try not to think of this as a bad situation, because ALL things work together for good for those who Love Him and Who are called according to His purpose. Godbless, Arlena Post Reply

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