Author	Thread: Profile opinions
Admin	Profile opinions Posted : 7 Sep, 2011 08:36 PM Hey girls it has been awhile since I have asked for your input on my profile. I have changed a couple things and added some new pics and wanted to get your input(guys are welcome too). Post Reply
View Profile History	Profile opinions Posted : 8 Sep, 2011 07:02 AM You should change your main picture to one that actually shows you (like the one in front of the red building). The picture you're using now is way too dark and shadowed, and it doesn't come off as mysterious, it looks ambiguous and creepy. Clicking through your pictures shows that you do, in fact, have facial features, and can take a nice, well-lit picture, so show it! You provide a good overview of your interests but in the middle, there is is, BAM. The abstinence talk. A profile isn't the place to put details about your sex life, existent or not. It's not something that needs to be discussed at that stage in the game. Since this is a Christian site, it's assumed that you're waiting for marriage, and that isn't a conversation or criteria that needs to be seen in order to go on a "get to know you" first date with someone or to start an email conversation. I would maybe add more about what you can bring to a relationship - you mention your interests, which is good, but the idea of "looking for someone who can keep up with me!" is almost more of a challenge and an invitation to competition, where you could phrase it differently, "I'm an exciting, active person who is always on the go and would love to share (whatever interest)" makes it more of a mutual activity and less one-sided. Post Reply
View Profile History	Profile opinions Posted : 8 Sep, 2011 02:54 PM Thank you so much for your input. That is exactly what I was looking for. Post Reply