Author	Thread: creepy or sweet?
Admin	creepy or sweet? Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 06:10 PM Some girls profiles say they enjoy cuddling/snuggling. If you read that on a guys profile would you find that creepy or sweet? Post Reply
teach_ib View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 07:05 PM I see that on many guys profiles. I think it is 'sweet'...definitely not creepy. I definitely wouldn't want to see...I don't like to snuggle/cuddle. If it's not in a profile, I wouldn't assume that the individual doesn't like to snuggle/cuddle...many may want to wait until they're married. Post Reply
View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 07:27 PM I think it is "creepy". Most normal people would want to Cuddle or hug, I know I do. If He has to put it on his Profile, he probably is refering to Sex. lol Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 07:43 PM I'm kinda neutral about it. If he doesn't say he wants to cuddle/snuggle, I don't automatically assume that he doesn't like to...just that he didn't put it in his profile. If he DOES say that he likes to, I would probably be a little wary of how physical he might want to get before marriage, and I would want to set the boundaries quite a bit farther back just to be on the safe side. But neither one is a dealbreaker. Post Reply
CuddleBunny View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 22 Aug, 2011 04:20 AM As you can see, by my profile name...I have a thing for cuddling :) When I see it on a guy's profile, I never once considered it to be creepy. Just depends on the woman and how she sees it. If you don't want to risk it, I wouldn't put it on your profile. Post Reply
View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 22 Aug, 2011 09:40 PM I think cuddling is sweet. :) Personally, I don't really see anything wrong with cuddling if two people have been seeing each other for about 6 months or more. However, my definition of cuddling might be different than most folks. My definition of cuddling does not include putting my hand on a woman's leg or anything else of that nature. Why??? Because I'm more of a man of God than that! I don't think it's fair to view another person (girl or guy) as being a "bad person" just because they say they like "cuddling". Anyone who constantly chooses to see the bad/negative side of things is being far too "judgmental". Give people the benefit of the doubt...at least until you "know" by their words and/or actions that they're definitely up to no good. Why??? Because love trusts...or in other words, gives the other person the benefit of the doubt...and doesn't make judgment on an issue without 100 percent obvious evidence. Post Reply
View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 23 Aug, 2011 04:23 AM I would be greatly surprised if a mature man would mention that up front in his profile. (under interests or hobbies perhaps??:excited::excited:) A profile is something like a first impression.... a general idea and very public I suppose one would not like to do this with all who view your profile.... I do not find it creepy.... that is rather negative. But reading something like that would put a big smile on my face and I would be tempted to send one of those soft, sweet, pink pluche cuddle toys, preferably with a speaking function... to tell a little bedstory. :ROFL::ROFL: By the way, the photo of cuddlebunny gives cuddling a whole new dimension!!! So much for the sweet.....:rolleyes: Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 23 Aug, 2011 06:22 AM I do not think that every word in a profile should be subjected to a psycho-analysis... Creeps and other scum have far better disguises and they do not even spit in the direction of something that might be considered creepy. They are the ones who pose and profile themselves as the most decent and highly morally developped creatures.... People who like to cuddle do not find this shameful and put this without second thoughts (and intentions) in their profile And whether you start to cuddle on your very first date or only after you have celebrated your 25th wedding anniversary ..... is fully up to you and your partner. It strikes me that so many people post bounderies, restrictions, limits and other clauses on a relationship they do not even have.... Relax... it is only a profile And there is always the account settings... MUST NOT CUDDLE :excited::excited::excited: Post Reply
View Profile History	creepy or sweet? Posted : 26 Aug, 2011 10:38 PM I agree with bcpian...(I forgot the rest of the sn, lol) It wouldn't be a deal breaker but I might be more vocal about setting physical boundaries earlier on. I wouldn't have a problem with reading "I don't have a problem with snuggling" but I would be little dubious about intent if I read "I love to snuggle and cuddle" or "I'm really touchy" This might be true, unless it's to the point that it could be alarming to the girl it probably doesn't need to be mentioned. Frankly, I'd be more interested in whether or not the guy would want to cuddle after he got married. This is because I have a cousin whose husband stopped wanting to cuddle with her or hold her hand after she was married, and she thinks all men are this way. I think surely not, but it would be the only thing I'd want reassurance of. Post Reply