Author	Thread: ( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates
nightfarmer View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 10:09 PM I can come up with alot of assumptions ,,but i rather here the ladies opinions.. (any one)? be honest know:glow: Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 25 Jul, 2011 05:39 AM Why do you think so? I see farming as stable so if i were to put a choice list, it is on top. If I were to retire, I would love to spend it gardening/farming and I think lots of matured ladies will agree with me. Maybe the young ones will be attracted to the excutive types and night life but at their retirement what will they do? Anyone here who has actual experience of building biogas system? In the near future I would like to venture into piggery and would like it to be environment friendly. Post Reply
View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 25 Jul, 2011 07:28 AM One of my good friends she married a farmer 15yrs. ago. They are both now in their 60's. She told me he farms all the time, puts in too many hours and they never do anything together any more. Only the first 3yrs. they enjoyed doing things together. She said he worries too much about his Land, crops, etc. So, I really feel for her. She and I talk often. She lives in a City about 40miles North of here. I guess, I am trying to say. That life would be for a lot of women, and it does not matter if you are a Older lady or not. We still like excitement. I am a retired lady now and I do not want to sit around a farm when the man works all the time. I am sure there are some ladies out there that would though. My girlfriend did not meet her husband online. She does not believe in going on the Computer for a date. :laugh: Best Wishes :angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 25 Jul, 2011 06:55 PM Farming is very hard work. I think if you were not raised in that lifestyle, or something close to it, a woman would not have a clear idea of just the breadth and depth of the work that goes into being a farmer. And those that do understand the breadth and depth ----- may choose not to be involved with someone who has that lifestyle. Not that there aren't other professions also requiring lots of hard work. One of my Uncles stayed and ran the family farm when Grandpa died. All his children married farmers (small farms, large farms, dairy farms, etc) and his wife, my aunt, came from a farming family. Post Reply
View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 26 Jul, 2011 07:34 AM I know almost nothing about farming, because my family moved around too much to have a farm and we mostly lived in cities. I wouldn't be opposed to marrying a farmer, but I think I would feel lost for a few years not knowing what to do or how to help. Post Reply
nightfarmer View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 26 Jul, 2011 07:47 PM ty for reply angel,,About your friend you said they spent time together the first 3 yrs,are you saying she spent time in the farm with here husband? DID her interests change? ACTUALY my fiance befored loved the idea of being together in the farm theres not many ocupations where husbband and wife can be together always,Thats one of the reasons i realy liked the farm the family could be together learning and experiancing so much together as far as rasing children its a wonderfull place to teach children everything from responcibility,nature ,carpentry ,mechanics ,near every vocational field can be experiance in a working farm from vet scieance to geometry to bookeeping to engineering to peacefull picnics in the back 40 with not a sound but the crikets and the frogs,, Boring realy the job changes nearly every week to even the day,,,i guess its boring if you confine yourself to the house,,but if some had any interest in nature or the world the farm is wide open for activity and experiances...ITS a great place to see GODS creation at work,,actively growin from seed to harvest,, from new baby births of mant types of creatures to the adult hood.,,experiance the seasons and how nature adapts to it constantly changing,,,from germination ,to harvest ,from birth to death,,a great place to teach children about hardships disapointments and how theres always new hope ,with the morning can bring a new flower,or fresh baby calf ,one of the true gifts the new birth of a living creature as perfect ,clean,innocent its a testament to a living GOD every day,,,WOW what a great exciting place,and educational,,,from enginering to heavy equiment operaters ,so much to experiance:applause::waving: my fiance saw the farm as a wonderfull place to work hand in ,,,and as she said just to be a companion in,,often times its a great day with the companion and the companion offten doesant need to do anything just experiance it together,,, SO much to offer if we can look at the opertunities involved if we chose to partisipate,, but from the sofa in front of the TV set iam sure its boring..:glow:i guess it what you want to make of it,,like life i guess ,if theres no interest than anything will be boring:glow: wow the farm is a huge and exciting active place Post Reply
nightfarmer View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 26 Jul, 2011 08:00 PM katie ,you dont need to know much ,all you need is to have a interest if you have a interest ,it can be a exciting place,at least i had realy looked forward to it with my fiance i could see her eyes light up as she constantly learn some thing new ,, A PERFECT PLACE to be a biblical help mate,,(AND be fore some ladies get mad at me ,= a help mate doesant mean a slave its too people with comon goals and being suportive much enjoyment can be found in being a help mate..just showing the husband that you have a interest will make you feel so special to him,and iam sure it will show in the efection thats returned,, JUST ONE NOTE ,,yes farming isnt just a job,its a way of life,,one nice thing is because ur some what a independant business you can make every decision in a GODLY way from honest business and trading to care of GODS CREATION...WITH out the presures of a boss or corperation pushing you to partisipate in dishonest or inmoral business practices ,,you can always HONOR YOUR GOD in your work:applause: what a wonderfull place:glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 26 Jul, 2011 09:28 PM ty for reply angel,,About your friend you said they spent time together the first 3 yrs,are you saying she spent time in the farm with here husband? DID her interests change? She spent time together outside of the farm, they went on weekend trips to Ozarks, out to dinner, shopping. She also helped him with his chores on Farm. He did not have animals just crops. Then she said it was His mind that changed. He had a elderly Widow mom who wanted all his attention, he was an only child. He sold lots of his Land to pay for his mom in a Home. This was the story she told me. They have been talking of divorce because the marriage is just going down hill for years now. Also she is going to Counseling 3 times month for Stress. Very Sad situation. Post Reply
nightfarmer View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 26 Jul, 2011 10:37 PM sad for that situation,,but really its common if ur parent is in need of care in a home ,its a reality of life few escape ,,, i dont know the details ,but how is the son not expected to do what he can for his mom,iam sure finacial stress true,, so often i wander where is the( for better or for worse concideered in all of this ) i know i cant judge this situation but i think theres many situation similiar to this ,,i just wonder where would our marriage vows come inplay in these situations,not judging just wondering ,,,its far from adultury,,very sad Post Reply
View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 27 Jul, 2011 09:57 AM This Story is about my girlfriend I have know her long time and would not post everything she told me on here. However, Unfortuanately Many Christian people do divorce because of many reasons not just Adultry. I have another friend from Church she has been separated for 8 years now, of her marriage because her husband is a Adulter and Abuser. He lives somewhere in the City here. Now, I ask you what kind of marriage is this. If I am married, I do not plan to be separated, if he has to Live outside the home. It better be for a Really good reason. lol Like live in Another Country. lol :angel: Post Reply
nightfarmer View Profile History	( FARMERS ) of any type . IAM curious of why does appear so low on the list as a choice in mates Posted : 27 Jul, 2011 07:15 PM obviously free to get divorce and remarry ,if adultury Post Reply

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