Author	Thread: Can't keep interest
Admin	Can't keep interest Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 04:59 PM Hey, My name is Bryan. I've been a member on this site for around 3 years now, but this is my first time writing on the forum. I've talked to many women on this site since I've been on here, but it seems like there is something about me that just pushes them away, and it really is starting to depress me. Usually women seem very interested in me at first, but after a few days or so of talking, it's like they just start talk talking to someone else and completely forget about me. I'm just wondering if there is anything in my profile that is turning them away or if it's just my personality, either way I would appreciate any suggestions. Bryan Post Reply
View Profile History	Can't keep interest Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 05:54 PM Bryan, I read your profile, everything seems fine, women might think you're coming across as a little braggy in it, though, I don't find it braggy at all. Some women might be slightly intimidated by it. Okay, and this line in your profile "or to make sure that he/she has a comfortable passing with as little pain as possible while also supporting his/her family." sounds really sweet, and like you care a lot about patients, but it may sound a little sorrowful or sad to some who read it. OTHERWISE, I think you have a great profile. I'd just remove the bit I mentioned, it sounds morbid, and I know that's not what you were going for. Rachel Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Can't keep interest Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 06:34 PM Honestly, I can't see much wrong with your profile. Yeah, it's a little braggy, but not overly so. The sentence that Rachel pointed out didn't bother me at all...it is true that it is sad, but it is also realistic. You show who you are, what your goals are, what you are looking for, etc. You might add a bit more about your walk with Christ; if I remember correctly, you don't say very much about that. Oh, and the first picture on your profile is my favorite...I'd make that the main picture if I were you! (But if you are actually talking to girls, on here, there's obviously nothing about the current one that's chasing girls off immediately!) Anyway, if girls are interested at first, but quickly lose interest, there must be something happening in conversation that is chasing them off. Of course, what exactly that is could be anyone's guess. Only the girls who lose interest would be able to tell you that. Good luck! Post Reply
View Profile History	Can't keep interest Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 07:18 PM Thanks for the replies! Yeah, I definitely don't mean to come off as bragging or sounding morbid, I'll definitely look into rewording it. I'll also look into putting in some stuff about my walk with Christ. I didn't put much about that in it because my testimony has a lot of personal stuff about my past that I don't like to talk about. I'll put some things in about my current walk and where God is leading me. :glow: As for my profile pic, I just sorta randomly chose one. I'll change it and see if that helps any. Thanks again! Bryan Post Reply
View Profile History	Can't keep interest Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 07:51 PM I myself think your profile sounds great...gee if I was just a few years younger...LOL. The same thing happens alot...it isn't just you. I have the same thing happen, time and time again. Just be patient with everything and be sure to listen to God and what He shows you. God knows what He's doing and He has it all planned out for you. ~flash~ Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Can't keep interest Posted : 13 Jul, 2011 07:51 PM Much better on the picture! I checked to see what revisions you have already done, and I think it's better already. I can understand about not wanting to put too much about your past, if it's something you aren't comfortable talking about. What you chose to say isn't too detailed, yet shows that you actually DO have a relationship with Christ. Keep in mind, however, that once you start talking more seriously to a girl, there will come a point where you will need to share more details about your past. Perhaps you won't need to share all the details at once, and depending on exactly what those details are, you may not even need to share ALL of them. But you should eventually tell her everything she needs to know about your past so that she can better understand who you are NOW. Again, good luck! Post Reply