Author	Thread: Girls getting over ex boyfriends...
Admin	Girls getting over ex boyfriends... Posted : 18 Jun, 2011 12:55 AM I have been talking to a girl for about 2 months now online and over the phone. She tells me her ex broke up with her 4 months ago and she's still hurt. I asked if she saw her and I headed anywhere and she said..."I dont know... but i could say yes because I like you, I'm just hurt right now". "Let's just see where it leads". Should I pursue a relationship with her? or am I just wasting me time? Or is she nicely just telling me she only wants friendship? I just feel spent right now!! Post Reply
Asher_Aurelius View Profile History	Girls getting over ex boyfriends... Posted : 18 Jun, 2011 07:26 AM Absolutely! Fight!! Charge!! Rawr is a great battle cry. But it seems to depend a lot on the individual lady and the issues that she has dealt with. Perhaps the hurt the and possible disillusionment are from that experience. Perhaps she was to be chased or doesn't know what she wants. Have you discussed the issue indepth with her, do you have friends who know you in person that may beable to offer wisdom and insight into the issue? Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Girls getting over ex boyfriends... Posted : 18 Jun, 2011 08:58 AM I think you should proceed, but with caution. I know what it's like to hurt like that, and it's never easy to really get over it. But sometimes moving on and looking ahead is the best thing, outside of lots of prayer and time with God. If you think you'd like to pursue a relationship with this girl, you should try to meet her in person as soon as possible. It doesn't have to be a date. You could just meet for a cup of coffee and some conversation, and see if you click. You might find that you don't WANT to pursue her...or you might find that she's worth every second you spend thinking about her. She might find the same thing. But delaying the meeting probably isn't going to help anything. Good luck! Post Reply
View Profile History	Girls getting over ex boyfriends... Posted : 18 Jun, 2011 12:29 PM I agree with you guys proceed with caution. I think men have that protective gene in them, that thing that makes them want to be the her, rescue the damsel in distress. He might think he's the "one" to solve her problems. I love that about men and speaking as a woman who has had her heart broken it's a two way situation. She has to give it to the Lord and ask God to repair her heart and rebuild her trust. When she does this if you are the right man for her when things start to progress she won't fall back on old hurt and insecure feelings and it will come from her seeing you not the past situation. Then there are girls who secretly want the guy to pursue her so she can regain her confidence as a woman someone to be desired again. Not sexually mind you but someone worth pursuing. I don't know what type she is but I will be adding my prayers to your situation. In the mean time ask God to guard your heart and guide your steps. Post Reply
PHOTOCHIC View Profile History	Girls getting over ex boyfriends... Posted : 23 Aug, 2012 08:35 AM Nope.... I think that if a girl is still hurting she has some healing to do and she can not give you 100% if she needs to heal. You don't want broken because all that baggage then comes into your relationship. If you want a rock solid relationship then she needs to be healed up first. Post Reply