Author	Thread: Sexually Purity
Admin	Sexually Purity Posted : 11 Jun, 2011 10:35 AM Are there any "Born-gain" christian females that feel like wating to have sex after marriage is the right thing to do? Why are more and more christian born-again females having sex before marriage? Post Reply
View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 11 Jun, 2011 12:57 PM Because hormones are a powerful thing, as is peer pressure. Did you know that the male sex drive is about 20x stronger than the females? Also, if they've been in a sexually active relationship before, it can be much harder to give it up whilst dating - there was a girl on here who has or had that problem... Post Reply
View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 11 Jun, 2011 05:45 PM Honestly, I know its difficult to wait but with the Lord's help, and accountability its possible. Plus, its really important, to protect yours and your bc/gf's heart, and relationship with God. So....take every step to protect the other, after all, believers are bros and sisters in Christ and to dishonor each other in that way, outside of Gods plan would be devastating.:-) Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 11 Jun, 2011 06:02 PM I'm committed to staying sexually pure until marriage. The Bible says we shouldn't sin sexually, and having sex before marriage would be sinning. I don't see what the big deal is. No sex before marriage means just that. Sure, it's hard. Sure, some people still sin and give in to their lust. But that doesn't mean it's right. And that doesn't mean that once someone has sinned sexually, they can just go on sinning because they've already messed up. Make sense? Post Reply
View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 12 Jun, 2011 12:33 AM Yep! Makes a Lot of sense, BC.:glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 13 Jun, 2011 04:39 PM I believe that waiting is the right thing to do, as it is mentioned several times throughout the bible.. only have sex with your spouse! hmm.. as a Christian, you have to wonder. sure, we all make mistakes, but on the other hand.. waiting, in my humble, (though fact based) opinion, is the right thing to do.:applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 15 Jun, 2011 06:50 AM I like your point about once you've mess up sexually that you don't have to continue...Kudos! Post Reply
VirtuosWoman View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 06:04 AM Absolutely I think I can safely say that most of us on this site that have been married before probably did not refrain from sex prior to the marriage. Now looking back we know that it was by defiling the bed we let SATAN GET A FOOT HOLD IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. Thank God for His mercy & saving grace. After all only the marital is undefiled. So as the other person posted, ACCOUNTABILITY WHILE DATING IS SO IMPORTANT. I have learned my lesson. Yes marriage is a wonderful blessed union and when it happens again I WILL DEFINITLEY NOT SUBCUMB TO THE LUST OF THE FLESH. Post Reply
savedtoserve View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 7 Aug, 2011 01:39 AM Marriage is only for the requirements of this world but if you base in the Bible.The man and woman have sex and they are in love each other. In the eyes of God they are husband and wife. but if you have a desire that you sex in a woman after marriage that is also good thing because you agree each other that way... Post Reply
ladybutterfly3 View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 12 Oct, 2011 05:29 PM well you should wait until you are marriage, the reality is that many haven't due to bad choices in life and just doing what you want to do as a sinner and backsliden christian, that great thing is that you can start over again by walking in Holiness. Remember you are the new man not the old. Hope to hear from you. Post Reply
ladybutterfly3 View Profile History	Sexually Purity Posted : 12 Oct, 2011 05:31 PM well the point is who is God your flesh or The Holy Spirit, you don't smoke crack or drink posion, why because it is wrong, bad for you and will kill you, so will the work of the flesh, so if you have The Holy Spirit you have the authority to restrain your flesh Post Reply

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