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What do women like to "hear"
Posted : 31 May, 2011 07:26 AM

in the first email a guy sends to them? Should they be short and sweet or is it better to give a little more info than what is on their profile? A sentence or a paragraph?

AND What kinds of photos are important?



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What do women like to "hear"
Posted : 31 May, 2011 08:28 AM

don't force humor, but show you don't take yourself too seriously. Kindness with come through.

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Posted : 31 May, 2011 08:41 PM

Shorter is better. Not too short, of course. (Hint: "Hi there!" is TOO SHORT. Thank you)

Something that tells me he read my profile, such as a comment or question. And do ask me a question, so I know you want further conversation.

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Posted : 1 Jun, 2011 06:49 PM

Yes, short but not too short and definitely something about her profile. Saying she is attractive is one thing, and polite. But this over the top stuff, like "you are soooooo beautiful! and I was smitten when I saw your picture!" :rolleyes:



Many guys do not read profiles and act surprised when you tell them something you had in it...like I do not want to relocate. lol~



You don't seem like you would have a big problem, Thunder, because you are very interesting and provoke thinking and stimulating conversation.



I like things like "how cool that you write, what is your favorite subject?" or "You have a nice profile and I enjoy music a lot, too."

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Posted : 1 Jun, 2011 06:51 PM

Oh, the photos? Full body shots and nice smiles. You have it covered there.

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Posted : 1 Jun, 2011 06:55 PM

Photos: Please (PLEASE!!) keep your shirt on. Close ups, full body, doing things you enjoy, or being places you enjoy/have been to. Pets are OK. Have at least two. I am very, very wary of anyone with just one picture. Two is minimum. And..... current. Within a couple of years. Don't post pictures of when you were, say, 6 years old. This is a dating site. I want to know what you look like NOW. Later, if we get along, you can show me your photo albums.

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2011 12:38 AM

oh i love hearing the truth about someone,not mostly on what they do but on who they are.whats important to them in life and hobbies,then from there we see what to talk about,but pliiiiiiiz the truth,i know when someone is lying.discerning spirit hahaah

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