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Posted : 8 May, 2011 09:55 AM

Okay ladies, maybe you can shed some light on this for me. This is a site for people to meet, as can be seen in the name of the site. But why is it when I try to talk to any of the ladies here I just get ignored? I am not rude, offensive, derogatory, or crude in any way... but when I send a message I see that it gets read, but I never get a response- not even so much as an "Im not interested."



Am I missing something or is it just something that typically occurs on sites like this?

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Posted : 8 May, 2011 09:59 AM

Welcome to the world of online dating. This has been discussed before and is a common complaint of both men and women.

You need to have thick skin to survive here.

Just dust yourself off and keep moving on.

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Posted : 8 May, 2011 04:07 PM

Could be distance, lack of common interests, or a number of other things...

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Posted : 8 May, 2011 04:09 PM

I believe also kids, age or career may have been mentioned before on the boards as reasons people may think the potential match is not compatible.

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Posted : 8 May, 2011 04:22 PM

As for getting no reply (not even an "I'm not interested" reply), there are a lot of "dead" profiles on here. It would seem that people create a profile, then forget about it. You can see if they read your message by clicking on the "Sent MSG" tab. If they didn't read it, you can almost count on it being a dead profile.

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Posted : 8 May, 2011 05:59 PM

I get a lot of messages, usually more than I can answer at one time, so I take a little while answering and sometimes accidentally overlook some, and don't remember not answering others. It's a really bad habit, I'm trying to break myself of it, and I'm sort of more or less thinking about limiting the number of messages I answer a day.



Either way I hope the people you write reply back, it could be they mean to reply back, and just don't have time yet, I usually try to give it awhile.

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Posted : 8 May, 2011 06:24 PM

Ms popular or I mean Msmarvel gets so many messages she can`t answer them all.

Jeewezeckers you can hear a freakin echo in my inbox.



PS

Just messin with yah.:nahnah:

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Posted : 9 May, 2011 09:20 PM

I'll give you the phone numbers of all my cutest friends, victory.

Pretty sure I know a couple that are even a bit closer to your age range.:goofball:

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Posted : 11 May, 2011 05:33 PM

hand those phone numbers over girl.:ROFL:

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