Author	Thread: Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize!
Admin	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 08:11 AM Almost every Woman has the desire to be treated like she is "Special". Some even expect to be treated like a Queen or a Princess. Most guys know this and have no problem with it, in fact many enjoy doing it, it is how they show their love. It is how many a man has won the heart of a woman. Then for some mysterious reason only known to men; the Princess treatment stops and everything falls apart, they are even disliked! Want to know Why? Here it is : Where there is a Queen, there is a King, where there is a princess there is a prince. A King or a prince may lavish their affection upon a Queen or princess with never any thought of return. However .... When the attention is not reciprocated ie: the man is not treated like a King or prince then sooner or later resentment begins to grow which will give birth to a extreme "dislike" Just thought you'd all like to know. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 08:23 AM Two, here's a question, is the woman treating the man like he's her prince before they get married? If not, why would she do so afterwards? Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 08:37 AM I agree with you, Two. It seems to be a natural instinct for humans to resent the fact that their investments(treatment like a King/Queen) are not bringing returns. There are going to be times in a relationship where one party is more needy than the other; it's never 50/50, always fluctuating. If there's a 'trick' to it, I think it'd be for each party to not be too selfish at the same time. Haha! :) Of course, it'd be a whole lot easier if we all lived solely for Him then we'd never be too selfish...but that'd be a perfect world. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 08:39 AM Cat, The post was about romantic male/female relationships in general. When you throw Marriage into the equation it sometimes has a effect depending on the people involved. Sometimes people are out to "get" something and will behave accordingly. A man may want to get a wife and a woman get a husband, when the goal has been achieved then the behavior needed to reach the goal ceases. This is what courtship is all about. You are right, if a man is not treated like a prince before marriage, he will probably never be treated like a King in marriage. Therefore a man should never marry such a woman unless all he wants is a friend he can have sex and offspring with. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 08:43 AM Browneyedgirl, you're absolutely right and that is exactly what the post is about. I agree the trick is 'not expecting to get' however when it is absent over a long period of time....there is a problem brewing. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 09:13 AM Two, I agree again. :) I believe that's where the communication/respect stuff come into play. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 09:41 AM But I thought men were all big, dumb, emotionless blocks of meat that just want to watch the game and drink beer with their boys? Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 11:55 AM @Two - thanks for the post. Yes, this lady does realize what you and BEG are talking about. @Tulip -- either you said that tongue in cheek.... or you know some really strange men! :laugh: Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 01:54 PM that's why we are all still here, because we have not found the one who will reciprocate our affection and treat us the way God intended us to be treated be it prince or princess. The problem I have had is that I DO get treated like a princess :) BUT when they figure out that I'm not giving IN, the royal treatment stops... everyone at work says I'm to picky and that I will end up being an old "spinster" (whatever that means)...but I just cant compromise on things that are important to me. There are some things that are necessary to have in the very beginning and if those things arent there, why would I even proceed and think that things will change later? being treated with respect and consideration is one of those things. so yes, Two, we get it... Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 02:05 PM River, I've gotten the same thing over the years. But you know what, there are just some things I refuse to compromise on, such as a man who is living a Godly life. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Ladies, Do You Realize? .... Men Realize! Posted : 7 May, 2011 02:12 PM catty- absolutely... :) Post Reply

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