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Rabbit32

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 12:29 AM

CDFF is advertising a dating website called herway.com where only women can search a initiate contact to men. What do ya'll think about such an idea?

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Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 09:38 PM

No, I really want to see what it's like rejecting all people all the time no matter what. And tell them to be more patient, more confident, less cocky, dress better, read my profile closer, ask more questions, don't ask so many questions, elaborate, don't blab, lose weight, be more interesting, be more mature, don't be so serious, try harder, don't give up, learn to communicate better, try to listen better, get a better job, better car, be more stable, take charge, be decisive, etc. I've honestly HAD it with hearing and seeing how no matter what I do is never good enough to be treated like a person all the while being oh so gracious about it through it all and trying to see it as an opportunity it is to be a better person. I've had it. That's it, plain and simple. And for once I'm gonna be the one that could care less, but tell them what they're doing isn't enough anyway. Empowerment to women? Well if you call her getting interested and fighting a losing battle empowerment then yeah, right on, your turn to chase the wind. The creators of this site are idiots (if they're being honest with their advertising). If anybody this site was made for disgruntled guys like me.

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Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 10:12 PM

Ah forget it. I'm better than that. Best just let it go and not care.

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Rabbit32

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Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 10:22 PM

I figure I would giveit a shot...

lol thought about doing the same thing as Brandon when it comes to ignoring emails, but Ill have to see if I ghet any.



Im curious to see if the lack of attention, will motivate women to contact me that otherwise would not be able to...lol this kind of like my own little psychological experiment.



I predict little will change, because Im not what people of this world want, and there are to few mature Christian women out there.

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Tulip89

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Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 07:00 AM

I'm sure I could do "better" if I took all the Christian stuff off my profile, but where would that really get me? It sure wouldn't get me closer to finding a Christian spouse, that's for sure.

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Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 07:01 AM

just be careful...every man/woman want someone who will be faithful/loyal and when they see a christian man on there, they will pounce but it's really the devil trying to get you unequally yoked so that you will not be as effective in the Kingdom. The enemy is cunning, just be careful.

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Tulip89

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Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 11:18 AM

As magnetic as I'm sure I am, I doubt a girl is going to put up with reading "Desiring God" just to get with me if she isn't really a Christian.

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riveroflife1

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Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 02:07 PM

I've done it before on a secular website and you'd be surprised at how many men responded.

I got the heck out of there and fast!!! You get tangled up in things that you dont need to be tangled up in.

all I'm saying is (with love) be careful guys :)

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Rabbit32

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Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 07:21 PM

Mine is a bit vague not mentioning much just the basics, and I havent got anything...which is about the same as it is here, if I dont take the part as the hunter.

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Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 08:27 PM

It could potentially be a good way for both sexes to learn to better relate to the other, by being in the others shoes and switching roles.

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Posted : 31 Aug, 2010 11:47 PM

Tulip and River both made some good points here. As someone once told me: "Never forget who you are and whose you are." Don't ever compromise your integrity and faith, guys; be careful!

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