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Rabbit32

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Ladies a little friendly advise...
Posted : 25 May, 2010 11:18 PM

...about how you present yourself on sites like these and others.



1. Do not crop your pics to where it cuts off half of your body, show all of yourself



2. Do not hold your camera above your head, the camera isnt like the eye and even though it makes for a good picture its not what you look like normally so please dont do it. :)



3. Wear light colored clothing so that it reflects the light better, dont use dark clothing to hide your flaws, thats just dishonest. If a man likes you well enough and you have parts of your body that arent very attractive said man will overlook that.



4. Dont photoshop, or get artsy with your pics, just be real.



5. If you are an lady who isnt a spring chicken any more, dont put a picture of you from your glory days, as a profile pic, thats just plain dishonest.



6. Not directly related, but for this site and for the love of God and your Chistian brothers completly conceal your"girls" away, we can concentrate on being pure more if we dont see the objects of our sensual desire. Proverbs 11:22



The reason I say this is too many women present themselves as something other than what they truly are and sometimes, in my case, it is less than what I desire when i finally see them as they are. When that happens there is a severe backlash because I withdrawl, and it doesn't matter how well the conversation, or connection was. ok rant off

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Ladies a little friendly advise...
Posted : 8 Jan, 2013 04:55 PM

This advice should be at the beginning of registration.

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Ladies a little friendly advise...
Posted : 13 Mar, 2013 10:09 AM

A very good advice.. Should say thanks :rolleyes:



But it makes me dizzy too many rules :peace:



And those rules should also be applied to all guys equally..:peace:



Cuz I had met a few guys who just looked way older, fatter--okay...bigger.. uglier... than their pics.. and still they didn't realize it and complained how skinny I was!



Mirror mirror where are you...



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Ladies a little friendly advise...
Posted : 10 Apr, 2013 03:23 PM

Agree except with the whole body pic and point 6 - what does latter mean? I will not post a whole body pic openly for every one to see. I do not want to be chosen because of my body. Looks or age don't bring anyone to Paradise! If I get along well with someone and there is an exchange of email adresses then I can still show it to him.

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Ladies a little friendly advise...
Posted : 21 May, 2013 10:49 PM

I thought your advice was interesting, so I thought I'd give guys a little advice:



1. NO bathroom shots...



2. I don't have a problem with photoshop....at least you can SEE the person...no dark, blurry pics.



3. Pay attention to your background



4. And yes guys will show their whole body...but as a girl I WANT a close up of the FACE



5. And what about guys who won't even add a pic? I still read them, but I wonder what's wrong with their appearance that they won't add a pic?



And for goodness sake...every computer on the planet has spell check...if I can't understand your post, to me that means I won't be able to communicate in person.

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Ladies a little friendly advise...
Posted : 23 Jul, 2013 09:05 PM

HAHA! makes me laugh to see that someone else has the same issues with those dinky pix... even magnified they are just too low in the res. : )

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