Author	Thread: Missing Out?
Job_33_4 View Profile History	Missing Out? Posted : 24 Apr, 2012 09:04 PM This is a question for any Godly woman that would like to answer. I am asking because I am curious about what you all may think. I know that everyone have physical desires and things that they are attracted to etc..we all vary in that department. However, lets say you meet a guy who matches, exceeds, or meet every criteria you would want in a man : Godly in mind, body and spirit, attractive, thoughtful, respectful, strong (physically and mentally), a leader of his own heart before God, intelligent, good with children, considerate, listens and speaks well, a gentleman..an overall great guy. But he doesn't meet that one physical trait you may like..such as he is 10 lbs overweight, he may not have the right color skin or hair..or he may not be as tall as you would like. Do you pass this man up or is he worth giving a shot? Please note that I am not attacking women or being biased etc..Yes, Ive been told Im not tall enough etc..Its kind of funny that these silly things are still issues even as I am getting older with some sisters..which I find kind of funny. It is just a social and cultural "norm" for a guy to be "tall" (above 5'6 lol). Why is that expected? Ive had women tell me that if I wasnt a short guy, Id have no problem with them. I think that that is not a Godly perspective at all. I am not having self confidence issues, so please dont think that lol. However, I am just curious as to what you all would do or say in this situation b/c not all women or people are the same. :) Thanks! Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing Out? Posted : 2 May, 2012 10:41 AM Ahhh, I can't type Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing Out? Posted : 2 May, 2012 03:19 PM Holding Out hope is again correct.....Nowdays people call everything racist.We also need to gaurd against the double standard.I have found women of all races attractive.My brother is not attracted to asian women.He doesnt hate them.doesnt want to discrimanate against them in any way......but at the end of the day......you are attracted to who your attracted to peirod.You cant force attraction! If you told me that you thought people shouldnt date across racial lines.....then I would say that is racist. but if its just a preference then thats NOT racist some people are really into calling attention to race bringing it up all the time ........this does more damage and causes more division.......stop it:stop: Post Reply
hubbarddebra99 View Profile History	Missing Out? Posted : 7 May, 2012 12:25 PM brains, and a kind heart are what is most important to me!!!!!!!! clean and non-smoker is more important than looks. The guy I like is perfect in EVERY way, except I am taller/heavyer than he is. he's pretty open minded, so I hope it won't matter to him, and we do start dating. Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing Out? Posted : 13 Feb, 2013 04:58 AM I think everything lies in following God's voice. I think eventhought if the person were not to meet the physics but he fits in other things i am looking for in a husband, i will give him a shot. Post Reply

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